How to Use a Vibrator – The Lifesaving Guide We Were too Lazy to Sell

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‘I can do WHAT with a vibrator?!’ – Explore some of the most traditional, tantalizing, and downright taboo ways to use your vibrator step by step, from head to toe in our exclusive guide to battery powered play and pleasure.

How to Use a Vibrator: Top 7 Ways

Are you looking for a new buzz? Is your vibrator gathering dust in the drawer? Can you remember the last time you changed its batteries? Perhaps you just got home with your new friend and you’re wondering what’s next on the agenda. Well, look no further for an easy guide that will get the good vibrations going…

1 Pursuing Two Mystical Beasts: The G-Spot and Female Ejaculation

The vagina is probably the second most popular place (after the clitoris) to put your battery-powered pal. Vaginal stimulation is a mystery to many, every woman is different in what she likes or dislikes, and we have all heard of the magical G-spot; but finding it can be another matter.

Most ladies will tell you that once you find it, you’ll know about it! A great way to explore your vagina, find your hotspots, and add an extra element to masturbation or clitoral stimulation is to find a vibrator that can penetrate and pleasure you.

How To Use a Vibrator for Vaginal Play

Step 1: Choose Your Weapon
Vibrators for vaginal penetration generally need to be long, as for the girth- that’s up to you. The second important feature for a vaginal vibrator to have is some curvature. It should curve upwards towards the end by some degree. This is the secret to stimulating the G-Spot. Unlike the clitoris, the vagina can withstand much stronger vibrations as it’s less sensitive – so don’t be shy choosing a model that really shakes yer bones!

The A&E G-Gasm Delight G-Spot Vibe is a great choice for G spot play. The girth is not so thick that it’s off-putting, and the G spot nub is a perfect angle to go fishing for that elusive pleasure spot. You’ll be able to test every inch of your vagina – front and back with this buzzing beauty. It has a dial for multiple speed vibrations, and its waterproof too, if you fancy a bath time treat.

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G-gasm Delight G Spot Vibe

Step 2: Hitting the Spot(s)
Once you’ve gotten your vibrator home, use it as if it were a normal dildo, inserting it into the vagina in whichever way you’re comfortable – paying attention to the curve – ideally this should feel like its pointing up towards your clitoris. Turn the vibrator on, use lube if you need to, and try moving it around, up and down, in circles, until you feel a sweet spot. Don’t worry if you draw a blank, this can take time.

Step 3: Ejaculating and Other Pastimes
Massaging the G-Spot is a surefire way to find out whether you are able to ejaculate or ‘squirt’. It takes 4 things in order to achieve female ejaculation: practice, hydration, relaxation, and stimulation. While some women do it naturally, others may never achieve it, but trying is always fun!

Whether or not you’ve found your G-Spot yet, you can still enjoy a vaginal vibrator immensely. Have your partner use it on you, or include it in masturbation. Try penetrating yourself while you also stimulate your clitoris – if you can multitask the benefits are well worth it!

Top Tip: You can get dildos that spin, pulse, and even tickle your clitoris to create extra sensations! Try the famous Rabbit vibrator for an all round amazing intimate massage. The new Rotating G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator has got everything. Penetration, internal rotating shaft, clitoral nub, and a curved and enlarged G spot tip. Plus it doesn’t snore. You may want to replace your boyfriend with it.

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Rotating G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

2 The Most Effective Alarm Clock in the World

I don’t know about you, but I’m not a morning person. At least I wasn’t until I started using a vibrator as an alarm clock. Not only do you wake up in the midst of pleasurable vibrations, but you save on blusher, and start the day with a spring in your step. Try to steady your trembling legs before arriving at the office or your colleagues might become suspicious.

How to Use a Vibrator as an Alarm Clock

Step 1: Get your hands on one!
There are a few alarm clock vibrators on the market now, the most popular being the little Rooster. It’s small, discreet, and ever so comfortable. Slip the vibrator into your underwear, lie back, and drift off. It simply sits against your anatomy, and is shaped perfectly to adapt to any sleeping position. If you can’t cough up for one right now, try using your regular vibrator in increasing increments before you get up in the mornings – it’s still guaranteed to improve your day.

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This is a rare gem that is worth every penny, it may seem an odd shape, but it only adds to the comfort and excitement come dawn.

Step 2: Take Your Time
The vibrations start off at an imperceptible level. In fact, if you fancy a weekend treat you can even set your vibrator not to wake you, but to give you pleasure as you sleep. Let the sensations enter your morning dreams and enjoy!

Step 3: Wake Up
Starting your day off with an orgasm can boost your mood, your energy levels, and even your sex drive. Choose from a wide and highly adaptable range of settings and be slowly brought up and out of sleep by growing vibrations – before you know if you will be glad to see that first crack of sunlight. Give yourself plenty of time to enjoy and recover before starting your day on the right side of the bed.

Top Tip: These are silent as a mouse, so they’re perfect for an early riser, a heavy sleeper, or even for those who share a room – just make sure you put the travel lock on before throwing it in your overnight bag!

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The wake up vibe alarm is a cheaper alternative to the little Rooster – cheaper, but just as satisfying, and arguably more attractive.

3 Backdoor Buzzes

I hope you already know that the clitoris isn’t the only place a vibrator can go! Anal play is great fun for boys and girls alike, and a vibrator is one of the many things that can add a novel sensation.

How to Use Your Vibrator for Anal Play

Step 1: If the Slipper Fits….
While there all all different ways to use a vibrator during anal play, if you’re going to use it for penetration, a vibrator especially adapted for anal play is safer, and feels nicer.

You can get typical dildo or ‘wand‘ vibrators, prostate massagers, vibrating butt plugs, anal beads, and double penetration vibrators. Find whichever suits you best, but if you’re new to anal play choose a smaller size.

The golden rule of anal play is never to insert a vibrator so far that it is not easy to use, to hold, or to retrieve – unless you want to be the laughing stock of the local hospital.

Step 2: Prepare
Trying to urinate and have a bowel movement is always advisable before anal play.
For any and all kinds of anal play lubrication is a mandatory feature – unless you want to risk hurting yourself, get your hands on a decent bottle of lubrication and use generously. That said, be sure it’s compatible with your toy (which could be made of silicone, for example) and don’t drown your vibrator with it unless it’s totally waterproof. Consider applying the lube to your body instead of the toy.

If you’re looking to experiment with anal, or are simply after a new buzz, My 1st Anal Explorer Kit serves as an exciting selection box for the newbie’s anal adventures! It’s a simple set of two anal vibrators – the first is slim and second is thicker. They are both great quality and easy to clean up.

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Anal Explorer Kit – For Backdoor Buzzes

Step 3: Finding the Prostate
If you’re penetrating the male anus, try moving your toy in and out while tilted upward in order to rub along the front of your rectum. If you feel with your hands first, the prostate is a small but noticeable mass. Once you locate it, try to massage it up and down, or hold the vibrator against it. Read our male g-spot bible for more information.

Step 4: Voracious Vibrations
While the clitoris has a hell of a lot of nerve endings all in one place, the anus does not, anal play is more about transferred sensations and indirect pleasure. In short, you want other parts of your body (your clitoris, your prostate, etc.) to pick up on what’s going on in your butt. So, don’t compromise on vibration. If you’re looking for something extra during anal play, use a vibrator that makes your teeth chatter!

Step 5: Let Loose
For beginners, anal play is usually easiest when initiated ‘doggy style’ i.e. on your hands and knees. Find the movements that feel good for you; if you’re wearing a vibrating butt plug its sustained sensation, perhaps while you masturbate or have sex with your partner. If its a vibrating dildo, the usual slow ‘in and out’ feels best; while if you’re using anal beads, its recommended that you slowly pull the beads out of the anus – repeatedly or just during orgasm.

Top Tip: For her, something that pushes against, and creates sensations in the vaginal wall, is most likely to cause a stir. Try the Double Penetrator Wallbanger. It looks pretty realistic (if a double penetrator can look realistic!), and serves up vibrations in all the right and wrong places.

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Wallbangers Double Penetration Vibe

4 Clitoral Climaxing

The oldest and most common use for the vibrator is clitoral stimulation. While we have come a long way from having to visit the doctor to use one (yes really!) and sitting on the tumble dryer, the feeling of vibrations against the clitoris is still a popular and pleasurable way to bring yourself or your partner to climax or supplement your sex life.

Natural Contours Jolie is silky, light, and quiet, but it’s powerful. This vibrator is finger-sized and runs one vibe only, but that’s enough to make you come quicker than a 16 year old school boy. Small vibrators with a pointed end are perfect for clitoral play. Try rolling the body of the toy across your anatomy or simply hold the end point against you for the most intense vibrations.

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Natural Contours Jolie

How To Use a Vibrator for Clitoral Stimulation

Step 1: Finding Your Partner in Pleasure
Find a vibrator that’s right for you – is it huge like a hitachi or a tiny bullet vibe? Does it have a pointed tip so you can focus all the energy on one spot? Or a blunt end that will send sensations all over your intimate areas? Do you like hard vibrators, or soft rubbery textures? Seek out whatever is right for you.

Choose your toy wisely, is it fit for purpose? If you need something super discreet, consider a wearable vibrator for example something like the Adam & Eve Purple Venus Butterfly that will secretly pleasure you wherever you please.

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Purple Venus Butterfly

Step 2: Find Your Hotspot
Many men, and a surprising number of women, are unfamiliar with the female anatomy. The clitoris is about 15cm long, and while it includes your G-spot, the head of the clitoris is usually the real pleasure centre. This is a hard and extremely sensitive bundle of nerves located somewhere above your urethra, near the top of the opening where your labia meet. Look in the mirror or have a feel and find your magic button – some people like to put their vibrator right there, while others like it just above, below, or around it in circles.

Step 3: Sensational Settings
Most vibrators come with a range of settings, this could be a button, or part at the end of your vibrator that you twist. Read the instruction manual to see exactly how, and make the most of each setting! Your vibrator may range from teasingly gentle to spine shakingly strong vibrations, it may even have a range of different patterns of vibration, like on and off, or slowly growing stronger. During playtime try them all out and see which ones suit you.

Step 4: Have Fun!
Once you know what you like, continue to experiment and enjoy. Do you like your vibrator held still while you use it or moving around? Do you need lubrication to improve the feeling of the toy? Do you like using it while your partner penetrates you?

Top Tip:
Some vibrators have the added benefit of being waterproof, so if you like to play in the bath or shower, take a close look at the super awesome Revel Body SOL Sonic Vibe. This vibe is new to the market and it’s creating a buzz in both senses. It’s a round clitoral vibe which makes holding it for play a breeze. There are 6 vibration options, including the unique OM vibration… for moments of extra bliss. These waterproof vibes are great to take on holiday too – if you’re planning some skinny dipping or even a leisurely swim in the sea, this vibe can liven your holiday up no end.

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Revel Body Sol Sonic Vibrator

5 Sensual Massage

Almost any strong vibrator can be used to tickle, tease, and ease up those sore spots. Most massage vibrators are big, bold, and strong – in fact some even need to be plugged into the wall. The most famous of these massagers come in a wand form with a large rounded head that looks like a microphone… If you have never heard of the infamous Hitachi Magic Wand, get out of here!

Despite their size, massage vibrators – also called wand massagers – are versatile, and will fulfill even the most voracious appetite for vibration…

Take a look at the brilliantly named Maxi Wanachi Waterproof Massager which measures 7.5” long by 1 1.5” wide. It’s waterproof and almost completely silent, yet it has an incredible buzz. You can use it all over your body to massage away aches and pains, as well as a traditional vibrator. Imagine an all-over powerful massage followed by an intense orgasm all whilst relaxing in the bath? Take wine and chocolates in too, now that’s a night worth looking forward too!

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Maxi Wanachi

Cancel that date with Creepy Steve from HR. Make a date with Maxi Wanachi instead. If the maxi is too large for you, try the Mini Winachi.

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Mini Wanachi

How to Use a Vibrator for Body Massage and More…

Step 1: Charge her up!
Like most vibrating sex toys, many of the massage wands require batteries, however some also plug in and charge up. Make sure you charge yours correctly, and remember NEVER to put them in water. They usually cost a pretty penny, so you don’t want to ruin them.

Step 2: Seductive Massage
The strong vibrations these wands produce is great for relaxing the muscles, while a sensual and seductive massage is a great way to start off foreplay and introduce a vibrator to your partner for the first time, it’s also great to whip one of these out after a long hard day at the office… or in the bedroom! You can even use massage oils to add to the experience, just make sure they’re ‘kiss safe‘ so the massage doesn’t end up leaving a bad taste in your mouth, or worse.

Step 3: The Main Event
While massage is all well and good, there is something even more exciting you can do with these vibrators. The large round heads vibrate against a large surface area and can bring on new and novel orgasmic sensations. Women have begun raving about these wands, and for a good reason. Many have more settings and buttons than your TV remote, and if you can get your head around them all, you’re in for one hell of a ride. Hold the vibrating head against your anatomy, like you would a clitoral vibrator, and let the pulses run through you for a deeper, more intense orgasm.

Top Tip: If you are searching for a luxury massage vibrator, you can’t beat the Lelo Smart Wand. It’s pricey, but wow!

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Lelo Smart Wand

Lelo Smart Wand – Luxury Wand Massager

6 Teasing the Penis

One overlooked, but oh-so-lovely use for your vibrator is with the penis. From the head to the perineum there are plenty of uses for any kind of vibrator. They can be used alone, during sex, or as a masturbatory aid. If you’re looking for an exciting gift for your boyfriend, or are a guy shopping for something a little exciting to add to the toy box, consider one of these.

How to Use a Vibrator on Your Penis

Step 1: What Goes Where?
Most men start off with the most basic of penile vibrators – the vibrating cock ring. Simply slide it over your shaft to add extra sensation while often delaying ejaculation. If the ring is elasticated, you can move it to wherever feels best on your penis, and you could even stretch it over your balls if that’s what feels good, but be careful not to snap it! You can find vibrators that only cover the head of your penis, only the shaft, or even vibrating flesh-lights. Which ever part of your penis enjoy vibratory stimulation – there’s something to fit the bill.

The Big O Multi-Stage Vibrating Penis Ring is a good bet if you’re searching for a cock ring. It auto-cycles through nine stages of vibration to keep the good sensations coming. There’s clit stimulation for her too, making it a bargain sex toy that both partners can appreciate. Don’t forget you can often wear vibrating cock rings back to front to tickle her behind!

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Big O Penis Ring

Step 2: Explore
Just like other vibrators, penile vibrators often come with a tantalizing assortment of settings and suggested uses. Take some time to get to know your toy and what your favorite things to do with it are. Do you like strong or gentle vibration? Do you like to move it around or keep it still? Practice makes perfect.

Step 3: When Can I Use it?
Whenever you like! Many penile vibrators are designed to supplement sex, so you can penetrate your partner or receive anal penetration while you use it. Similarly many are designed just to add a little extra something to your masturbation.

Top Tip: Want a vibrator that you can share with your girlfriend? Try the Octopuss Pulse vibrator:

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While it may not look like much, the Hot Octopuss will tease and tantalize anyone who plays with it. Try going solo before using it together.

7 Keeping Fit!

Hang on, don’t quit your aerobics class just yet! It may not replace a jog in the park, but playing with your vibrator is much more exciting and has a whole host of health benefits too. One doctor is even prescribing vibrators to cancer patients…

Looking after our health is the most important thing we can do for ourselves, so treat yourself to a vibrator that’s so great it keeps selling out – the Bendies Triple Tease Vibrator. It provides vaginal and clitoral stimulation and it’s very pretty. All those women can’t be wrong! As its name suggests, this vibe is bendy, so you can reach all those hidden spots you didn’t know you had! Don’t regret all those wasted years, instead make-up for them now.

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Bendies Triple Tease Vibe

How to Vibrate Your Way to Better Health

Step 1: Read Up
Try one or more of the things mentioned in this guide, or our others, and see what makes you tick!

Most women opt for the classic rabbit style vibrator, which is perfect for simultaneous penetration and clitoral stimulation, but the Seahorse Triple Action Vibrator adds one more dimension – a vibrating anal plug. You don’t need to use it every time if you don’t want to – it’s optional. If you are curious about anal, trying this on your own is a great way to get started. If you’re an anal pro, well, you already know this is going to be good! The Seahorse is so great you’ll need to book a week off work to become better acquainted.

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Seahorse Triple Action Vibrator

Step 2: Relax
Orgasm isn’t the most important thing about sexual pleasure. Simply enjoying yourself and exercising your erotic muscles is enough to have significant health benefits. As well as boosting your mood and your sex drive, using vibrators can improve circulation, energy levels, stress levels, and hormonal imbalance!

Step 3: Bzzzz….
You’re a pro with the vibrator now, you have probably learnt how to make yourself purr, palpitate, and you may have even practiced a little karaoke. It’s a great way to wake up on time, stay on top of your wellbeing, and play with your partner.

Top Tip: As mentioned by the doctor prescribing vibrators to her patients, If you’re menopausal, playing with a vibrator to stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot can have particularly beneficial qualities! Perhaps your doctor might even give you a sick note to go with your new vibrator.

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