One day I woke up and the internet was unrecognizable. What once used to be an underground place full of great people helping each other with real working knowledge, had become a piece a of trash.
Look I understand the economy and all, people write shit because somehow it makes them money (or talk it about on social media – which has probably been the beginning of the end for the internet). So it’s tough to criticize these people in a way when you have to make a living.
Take this blog for example, we’ve been promoting all sort of crap over the years, shit that I think people don’t really need, why? Because we had to make a living and you have to advertise stuff if you want to make money most of the time.
But now I want to try something different. Let’s try to do something that actually helps people get results.
I am gonna start with the worst places to look for dating advice, there’s just so many of them.
But first let’s explain what good dating advice is.
Good dating advice, in my is essentially what works. Not what is nice or bad or popular or mainstream.
As someone would say: Truth is What Works. Does it work on a mass scale? Yes, its good dating advice, it doesn’t? then it’s shit.
Classic examples would be the typical mainstream dating advice given to boys: be nice, give her flowers, tell her how you feel. This shit simply doesn’t work. Girls will take flowers but will open their pussy for the bad boy who is rude with them, make sexual innuendo, and objectifies them. By the way let’s remove the word negative connotation from the word “objectifying”.
Males and Females are animals whose only purpose on this planet is to fuck and procreate. In order to do this males “objectifies” females, in the sense that they are the object of sexual desire, and females objectify males in the sense that they are the object of their sexual desire.
Yes, girls love to fuck, and much more than men maybe. Someone would even say that girls’ only purpose is to fuck, while men’s is to fuck and also to make money to survive.
Why, women don’t need to survive? Sure they do in 2025. But evolutionarily speaking men have been taking care of women’s survival for hundreds of thousands, if not a couple million years.
Mating decisions are made through the lizard brain, not with the rational brain. I.e. What girls or guys say they like is different from what they will fuck.
This works on men and women. Most men will tell you they only like skinny girls for example, but from time to time they will fuck a chubbier bitch too. Women will tell you they only like asian guys for example, but they will fuck a white fat man if he’s charming enough and they’re horny.
Because of this discrepancy between what people fuck versus what they say they fuck or versus what they should want to fuck dating advice is a completely fucked up world.
There are few people though who get it right, these people used to be very popular in the early days of the internet when there was free speech and not so much crap. Nowadays censorship, advertising, mainstream agenda has pushed these people in the darkness from where they came and basically the internet has become a new TV, if not worse.
Like you don’t take advice from TV, so you shouldn’t from the internet (which is the new TV).
Unfortunately the truth of dating advice is that dating is not a nice sport. It’s pretty ugly, surely exciting and full of adrenaline, but also animalistic and definitely not mainstream.
Also to consider that 95% of men are beta males, they’re in most job positions and they tend to push beta males narratives with the unconscious hope that it will get them laid, good boys, mum is proud of you, but alpha males are actually getting the pussy.
Before we move ahead let’s specify that what I mean by alpha male is not what retarded social media people think as alpha. People who use violence, are aggressive, angry, drunk, smashing things are very beta, if not lower. A real alpha male rarely raises his voice, reacts or gets aggressive, he’s cool, confident and funny most of the times. Alpha male is a word that although makes perfect sense to me and to guys who bang bitches on a daily, it seems has been given an additional fucked up meaning, that has nothing to do with it. And when words get mixed up, things get even more fucked up.
Honestly I am not jealous of people younger than me who are growing up now navigating social media because they’re in so much chaos and confusion that’s fucking their brains with more and more shit. This is true for women too. Maybe for women the advice is even harder to find.
For example there’s dating coach frauds like that British guy I don’t remember his name, some blonde dude that looks like a chicken that employs his brother too and whose family own the Business. Rarely I saw someone more full of shit that than that and hurting women’s psychology more than that.
I will write a different article about women and dating because this is just getting very long and I am still in my introduction, LOL.
Social media = rat poison squared
Social media, from tiktok, to instagram to the most retarded reddit, is just designed to make money, trigger your attention, have your in your worst state and make money from your stupidity. Nothing in there is supposed to be of any help. I admit that I watch cats and dogs tiktoks with my girlfriend from time to time, they’re funny. But other than that there should be no other use for social media especially when it comes to such a non-mainstream topic as dating.
First of all , anyone can just get on social media and talk shit, whatever they want to say they can say, and most of the time these people are just there copying each other. There’s no originality no real depth, nothing just a bunch of kids with zero life experience copying each other trying to race to the bottom with shocking titles and headlines to capture your attention. It’s complete deep shit. Hey, but listen, I believe in people’s stupidity that’s why I bought a lot of META stock, I know that people are fucking retarded and no matter what they will keep falling for it, and you should, let that META stock soar. I believe in you guys!
Reddit has a special place in retardness, the social media retardness champion. Especially I have seen in the past guys going in women subreddits and asking dating advice there. This is as fucked up as things can get in this world.
To start with, the hottest, youngest, prettiest, feminine girls are definitely not on reddit. So when you post a question there you’re getting an answer from female goblins, masculine women, or fucking weirdos. So you’re asking the wrong people to start with. Second of all these girls have to answer you in a way that is polite, nice, and mainstream, otherwise they can get banned by the subreddit, since the subreddit moderator is there to make money and he cannot risk having his account shut down. So even if you were to get some actual help this will prevent it. (Which is a reason why I am writing on my own blog that only I control and nowhere else). And on top of that remember what I said before about “what men/women say they fuck ≠ what they fuck”. Because what they say they fuck comes from their neocortex (their rational brain), what they fuck comes from their lizard brain.
Netflix & friends = maybe worse than poison
TV shows is another category of horrible dating advice. Unfortunately this is what most people grow up with. I think this is especially harmful to boys. I was one of them and I sympathize with those that are in their 20s, virgin, and believing the crap they see on TV.
But I think it also fucks women up in a way, especially lately that feminism is a trendy topic, more women are being damaged than helped when it comes to sexuality and dating. If you’re in your late 20s or 30s and single or dating a stupid beta male while craving hardcore sex with a real man, thank Lady Gaga, Netflix and those other retarded TV shows and singers. These people are not retarded though, let’s not offend poor retarded people who actually were born with a mental problem. These people simply don’t give a fuck about you, are just after the money. If maschilism becomes popular next (which it will since trends change and maybe in 10 years it will be trendy again) you will see those fat ugly bitches like Cardi B and friends writing about how men are powerful and shit. It’s just money. There’s just too much money involved for you to trust any of that advice.
To recap you cannot trust any dating advice that comes from a source that is full of money like TV or like the internet nowadays.
Who should you trust instead?
People who have what you want. People who have had what you want on a large scale. If a guy has dated thousands of girls and has fucked a few hundreds, the law of large numbers is on his side, he knows what works in real life. You may find someone like this on the internet (like me for example) but you have to verify their skills in person, never give any money to someone unless you have been with them and see what they can do.
For women things are very similar. You want a guy like X? See guys like that around, see what kind of girlfriends they have? You have to become like that. Most likely they’re hot, feminine, sexy, well groomed, well dressed and they may even work in a supermarket, because men don’t give a fuck about your career. Your mum and dad do, you do, Cardi B pretends to do, but men don’t give a fuck. Sure, hotness level being the same would I prefer to date a girl that works in a restaurant or an architect? Hotness, femininity, sexual skills being equal I prefer the architect. It’s secondary.
Unfortunately while I think men do get this advice here and there, women rarely do, I love women with all my heart, they’re the best invention ever, if there were not womem life would be horrible, miserable, deep shit. Women are the greatest invention ever. But unfortunately for women rarely they get some proper advice, everyone around them try to protect their emotions to not offend them, nobody has the guts to tell a woman friend, look bitch you’re ugly as fuck, get some boobs, learn how to cook or dance, learn how to make a conversation, lose some fat.
Nobody will tell them that, which is hurting them really. I personally don’t give a fuck, I just avoid those fat goblins and go about with my life, but I do feel sad for them sometimes.
Here you have it, I am gonna go have dinner now, I wrote this article all in one go, wow, that was nice. Did you like this?
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