How To Eat Pussy: 10 Steps (with Pictures)

Whether it’s your first time going down on a girl or you’ve been eating pussy for years, there’s no harm in brushing up on the best and most efficient techniques to make a woman go crazy.

But what are the best ways to eat pussy? What’s the best position for eating pussy? And are there any wrong ways to eat pussy?

Let’s dive in and find out!

But remember: Eating pussy is only part of the equation, using my simple method for having sex for 30+ minutes is what will take your sex game to the next level.

How To Eat Pussy – A Step By Step Guide

Step 1: Get your face near a pussy

Before you can eat one out, you need to start by finding a girl and getting yourself in the right situation where pussy is on the menu.

This part isn’t always easy, but in my opinion, talking to women and dating them is one of the best parts!

If you already have a girl, great! All you’ve got to do is set the mood, and go down on her when the time is right.

Otherwise, you’ll need to brush up on your flirting skills, chat with some women, and take one home with you.

Step 2: Get into position

As both the one going down and the one being eaten out, comfort is important.

If you’re not comfortable, eating her pussy isn’t going to be as fun as you’d like, and if she’s not comfortable, she won’t enjoy it as much.

So make sure you’re in a comfortable position, otherwise, you might break your neck and I don’t want you to die like that.

I mean it could be a hell of a way to die… but yeah, not on my watch.

You can eat pussy from almost any position, but if it’s your first time, missionary is your best bet.

Have her laying on her back with her legs spread. You should be on your stomach or knees, and I think you know where your face should be.

And don’t worry! I also list a few other great positions you can use below!

Step 3: Build anticipation

Eating pussy is great, but it’s the journey that counts, not just the destination!

So before you open your mouth, start by gently kissing, teasing, and stroking around her magic pussy.

Feel her body, explore her curves, and get her in the mood first. You want her craving it, so tease her before you please her.

Plus, I mean, how long have you been waiting for this moment? You don’t want it to be over too quickly.

So take your time and build anticipation!

Remember the good old days of dreaming about it, and now it’s happening.

Ah, was it the law of attraction?

Who cares!

Step 4: Start eating her out

Once you’ve got a girl, you’ve got her in the mood, and you’ve built some anticipation, it’s time to eat her pussy!

Open your mouth and stick your tongue out… There you go, not like a lizard, just be normal.

Ok, fine like this is good…

Start by gently licking around her labia (you know what those are, right? Those two flaps of skin on the side of the hole), and working your way, slowly, closer and closer to her clit.

You’ll want to focus a lot of your time and tongue technique on her clit. That’s where she’ll be most sensitive and it’ll feel the best for her. Lick it up and down, and side by side.

But don’t be like a robot, have fun, and enjoy it.

Imagine you’re licking cake off an egg beater. Get in there real good!

The secret is that you should enjoy it. When I lick a beautiful girl’s pussy I can hardly control myself. I want to lick her, I want to eat her, I am like a pussy piranha. 

I don’t really care if she likes most the clitoris or her labia, I do what brings enjoyment to myself, and guess what happens? They love it. They absolutely love it.

The numbers are by my side. I have tried this with more girls than I can remember dated in many countries around the world. Girls love a man who loves their pussy. But the secret is that me, as a man, I am not even trying, I am eating her pussy because I love to.

All these girls had in common is that they’re young and super hot.

If you’re dating a sub-optimal girl and you don’t want to lick her pussy, you shouldn’t even try, just break up, improve your dating skills and find a girl you cannot wait to eat out!

Everything will come out naturally after that.

Step 5: Let her know you love it

There’s nothing sexier than knowing that your partner is enjoying your body.

So make sounds if you’re enjoying it, and make her hear it!

You can moan or tell her directly that you love her pussy and the way it tastes!

Let her know you love it. Women sometimes feel self-conscious about their bodies, especially when someone is going down on them.

So don’t be shy. Tell her you love her body, her shape, her taste.

She’s going to appreciate it.

Step 6: Play around

Remember those two labia things? Well, it’s time to suck them a bit, even give them some gentle little bites…

Of course, you don’t want to hurt her, but you do want to tease her and give her different sensations.

Sometimes you can even grab both of them and give a little bite at them together like you’re eating a pussy sandwich.

I’m joking, mostly…

But my point is that you don’t want to be a one-trick pony.

So move your tongue around, lick different parts of her pussy, touch her breasts or buttocks, and tease her as much as possible.

All of this just adds to the experience for both of you!

Step 7: Go for the clit

Get licking the clit (you don’t know what’s a clit? Ok seriously? How old are you bro?).

Again, don’t forget that her clit is the most sensitive part of her entire vagina, and it’s where you’ll want to spend most of your time.

So get licking!

Gently lick and suck her clitoris in any way you see fit.

Try gentle flicks of the tongue, lay your tongue flat on it, and move your whole head side to side, or you can even use your finger while you’re sucking and playing with other parts of her pussy.

Either way, just remember that this is how you’ll really get her going.

Step 8: Aim for the hole

Ready to go for the hole? Are you sure?

Once you’ve got her squirming and writhing for more, it’s time to go for the hole.

She should be plenty wet by now, so move down lower, and try sticking your tongue inside.

At this stage, you can do various movements like thrusting, rotating, or whatever feels right.

And yes, you can stick a finger or two inside while licking the clit. Stimulating her G-spot can also feel phenomenal for her!

Ok, you’re now becoming a master!

Wow, I am so proud of you, you didn’t even know what a labia was up to a few seconds ago, and now you’ve got her in the palm of your hand!

Step 9: Find what works best

Keep trying different things and combinations of things to see what works best. Is she enjoying it? Keep going then!

If you’re uncomfortable or not enjoying it yourself, then just stop and find a more comfortable way to do it.

If you’re enjoying licking her pussy, she’ll be more likely to enjoy it too. But if it’s a chore for you, she won’t be so turned on and she might think you’re needy and care for her more than for yourself.

Step 10: The end

You ate a pussy! Wow! That’s what I call a life worth living. Now that you’re done licking, give her a long night of amazing sex following the instructions in my best-selling book.

The ABC of Pussy Eating

This pussy eating guide is divided in 3 parts for your easy consumption.

I’ll break down each of the following aspects of eating pussy below. So keep reading and let’s dive into the ABCs of pussy eating!

A = Anatomy

B = Best positions for eating pussy.

C = Cunnilingus! By the way can we please find an easier word for this?

Anatomy of a Pussy

While you might think the clitoris is the most crucial part of the vagina, many other parts can be equally pleasurable when stimulated correctly.

So if you want to learn how to perform mind-shattering, leg-shaking, moan-inducing oral sex on your girl, you first need to know how her anatomy works.

The clitoris

Considering that only about 25% of women orgasm from vaginal penetration, you can easily see why the clitoris is one of the most critical parts of female anatomy, at least when it comes to pleasure.

• The clitoris consists of roughly 8,000 nerve endings, making it the most sensitive part of the vagina.
• When stimulated to climax, clitoral orgasms release a ton of oxytocin and other feel-good hormones into the female body.

The labia – Minora and majora

Also known as the lips, the labia minora, and majora surround a woman’s vulva. Every woman has both types of labia.

Each woman has a different color, size, and shape of labia, which makes each set unique and beautiful in its own way.

Of course, you’ll want to expend most of your energy stimulating her clit, but there’s nothing wrong with touching, licking, or sucking her labia too.

• The biological purpose of labia is to protect the urethra and vulva from irritation, infection, and dryness.
• During arousal, a woman’s inner and outer labia become engorged with blood, making them more sensitive to touch.

The vulva

Technically speaking, the vulva is the vaginal opening that leads to a woman’s uterus.

• Most women do not feel stimulation on the inside of their vagina past an inch or two.

So when you’re eating pussy, it’s best to focus on more sensitive areas, like the clitoris or the g-spot, instead of trying to go deep.

The G-spot

As part of the clitoral network of nerve endings, the G-spot, or Grafenberg spot, is a soft, spongy area located about an inch or so inside the upper wall of the vagina.

• The G-spot is basically the back side of the clitoris, connected by thousands of nerve endings, which is why it can feel so good when stimulated.
• With enough G-spot stimulation, some women may even ejaculate, also known as squirting.
• Research shows that anywhere between 10% to 54% of women squirt from G-spot stimulation.

Urethra

The urethra is a small opening located below a woman’s clitoris but above her vulva. Just like men, the urethral opening is where a woman expels urine from her bladder.

For all pussy eating intents and purposes, the urethra is best left unstimulated. But if she’s kinky and into a bit of BDSM, you should know that:

• Sounding is the sexual fetish act of inserting different sizes and shapes of metal rods into one’s or one’s partner’s urethra.

Not exactly my cup of tea, but if she’s into it, don’t yuck her yum!

Anus

Although not technically part of the vagina, the anus and skin surrounding the anus are packed with sensitive nerve endings.

Therefore, stimulating this area, alongside clitoral or vaginal stimulation, can prove to be a beneficial technique when eating pussy.

• According to anal sex statistics, a third of women said they are interested in anal sex.
• Licking, penetrating, or stimulating the anus with your tongue is known as analingus.

However, it’s important to note that not all women enjoy anal play.

The perineum

The perineum is a small area located between the lower side of the vagina and the anus.

This is another area packed with sensitive nerve endings, which can be stimulated during cunnilingus.

Best Position For Eating Pussy

Now that I’ve covered how the vagina works, the next step is to learn the different positions used when eating pussy.

Make sure she is comfortable

When it comes to pussy eating positions, there are virtually no limits, aside from your own and her physical capabilities, to what you can do.

But no matter what, eating pussy will be far better if both of you are comfortable!

And it’s also good to note that comfort goes beyond physical comfort.

Lighting candles, playing soft, calming music, or even having a glass of wine can all help her relax, increase her comfort and maximize her pleasure.

Missionary

Just like you would do for regular sex, missionary for oral sex works by having her lie on her back, with her legs spread, and you with your face in between her legs.

As one of the most common sex positions, missionary is excellent for many reasons.

For starters, missionary provides perfect access to her clit, as well as making it easy to massage and tease her stomach, labia, and inner thighs.

Remember these regions are all loaded with sensitive nerve endings, making them perfect for teasing her into a frenzy before even touching her clitoris or vulva.

Secondly, if you have her lift and hold her legs back, you’ll be putting her G-spot in an easy-to-reach position, perfect for stimulation.

So get a finger or two in there and start rubbing!

And also, missionary makes it easy to maintain direct eye contact, which releases oxytocin and makes cunnilingus that much sexier for you and her.

On the downside, missionary can make it a bit more challenging to finger or penetrate her vulva while you’re down there.

So I recommend propping her butt up using a pillow or two.

This ensures that you have full access to not only her clit and G-spot but also her entire vulva and anus.

Doggy style – Eating pussy from behind

When it comes to sex, sometimes you need to let your animal instincts run rampant.

And that’s why doggy style is a favorite position for many men and women. But it’s not only good for penetration.

For eating pussy, doggy style works with her on her knees, her butt up in the air and her face and torso down.

This makes it easy for you to penetrate her vagina with your tongue.

If she’s OK with it, this position is also great because it provides easy access to her anus. So you can easily tongue both of her holes.

On the other hand, being in this position will make it a bit trickier to access her clitoris.

So one suggestion is to have her stimulate her clitoris with her hand or a vibrator while you lick, suck, and finger her pussy and ass.

Queening or face sitting

When performing oral sex, you want your girl to feel like a queen.

So what better throne for her to sit on than your face?

Also known as “queening,” face sitting is an excellent position for eating pussy because it gives her more control over the situation.

She can control where you’re licking, how hard you’re licking, and the rhythm she needs to get off.

Ideally, you’ll want to be lying on your back with your face looking up.

Then, have her straddle your face, facing forward (cowgirl style) or backward (reverse cowgirl).

Depending on her mobility, she can either be on her knees or her feet, squatting over her face.

One alternative to this position is the classic 69 position.

For this, have her sit on your face in reverse cowgirl so that she can access your penis and balls (or pussy) to reciprocate the favor while she grinds on your face and feels like a queen.

Getting creative – The Kama Sutra and more

So far, I’ve listed some of the best and most common positions for eating pussy.

But these aren’t the only positions for eating the puss.

So if you really want to spice things up, I suggest buying a copy of the Kama Sutra or any other book that lists different sex positions.

I used to have a great Kama Sutra book 12 years ago or so. When you flipped the page the drawing would come out of the book and you could pull the strings to simulate the sex positions. It was fun.

And whether you learn from a book or from blogs like this, just make sure to switch things up from time to time.

Feel free to get creative and try new things. After all, they say variety is the spice of eating pussy…

Cunnilingus – The Best Pussy Eatings Ideas & Techniques

Now it’s time to dive into the best, most coveted techniques for eating pussy and making her cum.

• 48% of women say they need a partner’s hand or mouth to help them orgasm.

So if you’re reading this, you’re doing all the women out there a massive favor by learning about the best ways to help them climax.

This sexual confidence may put a little twinkle in your eye next time you speak to a girl you like.

Ask her what she likes

I could write volumes about the different techniques for performing cunnilingus on a woman.

But it all amounts to nothing if your girl isn’t comfortable or doesn’t like what you’re doing.

Therefore, a good piece of advice I can give you is to ask her what she likes.

Do not ask this during sex, but much before or much after, which makes things less awkward for the both of you.

During sex, just focus on reading her body language to see what works and what doesn’t.

Some girls like to talk during sex and tell you what they like, in which case it’s ok.

But 99% of girls just want a man that knows what he wants, knows what to do, and knows how to dominate her in bed with his masculine energy, presence, and direction while she can let her feminine conscious mind go and let her body dissolve in pure bliss.

When you talk to your girl about oral sex she might be able to tell you precisely how much tongue she likes, whether or not she enjoys fingers, or if there’s anything else you can do to help get her off.

On the other hand, she might genuinely not know what she likes.

She might not have the experience or be too shy to tell you.

So if this is the case, take it as a sign that it’s time to explore her body, see how she responds, and find out for yourself.

I promise that if you can learn what she likes and put it into action regularly, you’ll be her favorite lover in no time.

Build anticipation

For men, it’s usually easy to think about sex and be ready to go. But this isn’t the case for most women.

That’s why it’s best to build anticipation and lead up to it before going down on her.

Getting her thinking about it before it even happens is one of the best ways to ensure that you and she have a good time while you’re down there.

And the best part is that you can do this even before you get into the bedroom.

You can build anticipation by flirting with her, using eye contact and body language to build & break sexual tension, escalating then rejecting, emotional push & pull, sending her naughty text messages, or simply telling her what you want to do to her.

The more you can have her thinking about it, the more likely you’ll succeed in getting her off.

Feel free to book a coaching session with me if you need more specific dating advice.

Treat her clit as a delicacy

As I’ve mentioned, the clitoris is packed with nerve endings, making it one of the essential areas you’ll want to focus on when eating her pussy.

• More than 36% of women say they need clitoral stimulation to climax.

But I should note that some women’s clitorises are more or less sensitive than others.

So the amount of tongue, pressure, or stimulation you’ll need to get one woman off might differ drastically from what you’ll need to do for another woman.

Again, this goes back to reading her body language, and asking what she likes in the first place.

And unless she’s super sensitive and doesn’t like it, you’ll want to spend most of your time stimulating her clit.

The Kivin method

Sometimes, maximizing pleasure can be as simple as switching up the way you approach your target.

Instead of approaching it head-on, the Kivin method suggests the giver comes at the vagina from the side, horizontally instead of vertically.

Ideally, you’ll have her on her back with her legs spread, so they’re out of the way.

This should make it easy to approach her vulva sideways, so you can give her a bit of side-to-side clitoral stimulation instead of the more traditional up-and-down stimulation.

Both up-and-down and side-to-side provide a similar type of stimulation.

But sometimes all you need to do to help her get there is to switch things up a bit.

And the Kivin method provides you with a way to do precisely that!

Who is Kivin? – The Kivin method?

From my research, I can’t find any information on who Kivin is or where the technique originated.

But most of my sources state that the Kivin method most likely gained traction via Reddit.

In my opinion, Kivin is likely a typo of the name Kevin, but I cannot confirm or deny Kevin’s existence.

So Kevin, if you’re out there, I’d love to hear from you!

And please, let me know if you have any other pro pussy eating techniques!

Pay attention to her whole body

You’ll obviously want to focus on her clitoris and vulva when eating her out.

But there’s plenty more to a woman than her vagina.

So don’t forget to pay attention to her mind and the rest of her body, especially when trying to build anticipation before going down on her.

The more psychological and bodily sensations you can give her, the more likely she’ll be able to orgasm.

The nape of the neck, ear lobes, breasts, nipples, stomach, and inner thighs are all areas loaded with sensitive nerve-ending.

These areas are perfect for teasing her and getting her in the mood before the main course.

Wetter is better

Just like with penetration, eating her out and fingering her will feel much better if she’s wet.

Typically, if you’ve done your job in building anticipation and getting her in the mood, she should already be wet by the time you get down there.

But some women have difficulty getting and staying wet even if they’re 100% turned on. And for others, it might be a sign that she’s just in the mood.

So if you can tell that she’s not wet, make sure to lube her up first, especially before inserting anything into her vulva.

Spit works wonders while you’re performing oral sex.

But you can also use flavored lubricants or oils if you need a bit of extra help.

If you’re using massage oil, just make sure it’s safe for internal use before applying it to her vagina.

Find your move, find your rhythm

When you first go down on her, I suggest you play around a bit and tease her inner thighs and labia before touching her clitoris or vulva.

But once you start eating her out, you need to watch her reaction and find out what works best.

For some women, this might be purely clitoral stimulation.

But for others, they might prefer a combination of clitoral stimulation and being fingered simultaneously.

Either way, my point is that you need to find a technique she likes. Then once you pinpoint that, find your rhythm and stick with it.

Keep it consistent

Sometimes, it’s fun to experiment with different techniques and sensations when going down on a woman.

But when it comes to helping her reach orgasm, your job is to keep things consistent until the train arrives, if you know what I mean.

Whether you’re licking or rubbing her clitoris, fingering her g-spot, or doing anything else, if you can tell that it feels good, and if she’s moaning and clearly enjoying what you’re doing, for the love of God, DON’T STOP!

If you’re lucky she might even vocalize it.

So don’t stop!

Even if your hand or mouth is getting tired, I recommend you do everything in your power to keep going until she cums.

She’ll thank you in the end!

Read her reactions

So far, we’ve mentioned that you need to see her reaction to find out what she likes. But it would be best if you also listen for what she doesn’t like.

Some women will clearly tell you if they don’t like something. But others might be too shy to say anything. Once again, it’s your job to watch how she reacts and act accordingly.

If she’s moaning and thrusting, you’re probably doing great. Keep it up!

But if she’s completely quiet and motionless, you should reconsider your technique, or just do something else.

Remember, you have hands!

If your goal is to eat pussy, obviously you’ll want to use your mouth and tongue to do it.

But it never hurts to throw in a finger or two and use your hands for a bit of added stimulation.

You can try rubbing her clit while licking or sucking her breasts, nipples, or any other erogenous zones before going down on her.

Or you might try fingering while sucking her clit, which brings us to the following technique.

G-spot stimulation

Named after German gynecologist Ernest Grafenberg, the G-spot is located about one to two inches inside the upper wall of the vagina.

When stimulated, the area usually swells, and with enough stimulation, some women may even ejaculate, which is referred to as squirting.

Whether she squirts or not, stimulating this spot while licking or sucking on her clitoris is one of the best techniques to drive her wild.

• Between 10% and 54% of women squirt.
• To this day, there’s a great deal of controversy over whether the G-spot exists.

Use your mouth for more than licking

Even if you’re going down on her, you can and should use your tongue for more than licking her clit or vulva.

For many women, hearing you say nice things about their bodies or naughty things about what you’re doing or what you want to do can help them reach orgasm in no time.

• 74% of women say dirty talk is one of their favorite things to hear while between the sheets.

And don’t forget that you should also kiss her lips and body.

Your goal is to stimulate her vagina but remember: many other parts of her mind and body can be stimulated to get her engines revving.

Don’t be afraid of toys

For some women, your mouth and hands just won’t be enough. And that’s OK!

Nothing is shameful or wrong with it if your girl needs a bit of help from a vibrator or any other toy.

• 29% of women say they need a vibrator to orgasm.

Adding sex toys into the mix can help spice things up for her, and they can also help make your job of getting her off by eating her pussy that much easier.

Experiment

One of the best parts about having sex with another person is playing around and experimenting with what feels good.

Those with a bit more experience might already know what they like and won’t need to experiment.

But for others, experimenting with oral sex can open the doors to a new world of unique sensations that you and her never even thought possible.

So remember to use these techniques, but remember to experiment too, and find out what works best when eating her out.

Bonus:

Top Mistakes People Make When Eating Pussy

Now that I’ve covered all the best positions, ideas, and techniques, let’s end with common mistakes people make when eating pussy.

Using the alphabet technique

I’m not quite sure where this technique originated, but you’re better off forgetting about it entirely.

The alphabet technique suggests that you write out the alphabet with your tongue on her vagina, one letter at a time.

While doing this, sure, you’ll likely flick a few of the right spots.

But you’ll more likely lick parts that don’t feel great, which can be frustrating for her and will wear your tongue muscles out, all for nothing.

Instead, I suggest focusing on her clit, using gentle tongue flicks, or applying the flat part of your tongue and moving it side-to-side and up and down.

These basic techniques are likely far more effective than teaching her vagina its ABCs.

Inconsistency

I’ve already covered the importance of finding your move, finding a good rhythm, and staying consistent.

And that’s why I want to remind you that inconsistency is one of the most common mistakes you can make when eating pussy.

Women often need consistency to climax.

So when you’re doing something right, and she’s approaching orgasm, don’t slow down or stop!

Read her reactions

Whether she’s telling you to keep going, lick harder, stick a finger in, one of the biggest mistakes you can make while eating pussy is not reading her body language.

It’s essential to listen to both verbal and non-verbal cues.

If she likes what you’re doing, she should react by moaning, thrusting, and quivering. She might even tell you she likes your actions.

Alternately, if she isn’t reacting, not moaning or telling you to stop, then stop, maybe she’s too sensitive or doesn’t like it.

Imitating porn

Some women might want you to re-enact what they’ve seen in porn. So in some cases, imitating porn can be good.

But before you start copying everything you’ve seen, it’s essential to understand that much of what happens in pornography is acting.

Even if the actress you’re watching looks like she’s enjoying it, it’s just as likely that she’s putting on a show for the camera, which is, after all, what pornography is.

Being too rough

The clitoris alone has more than 8,000 nerve endings, and the entire vagina has thousands more.

In other words, it’s an extremely sensitive area of the female body.

So it’s best to err on the side of caution and be gentle, especially when first getting started.

I recommend starting slow and being gentle at first.

And only once you can tell she’s feeling good and her body is reacting favorably should you ramp up the speed, frequency, and intensity of what you’re doing.

Not asking what she likes

Every woman is different. And not only in the way they look, think, and feel. But they’re also different in the way they like to have their pussies eaten.

After all, it’s her that you’re trying to please. And as much as the techniques I’ve shown you are great, only she can tell you exactly what she likes.

Just don’t ask her during sex, you can look very needy if you do so. Ask her after sex or before (to spice up the conversation).

During sex, her body language will tell you everything.

It’s also good to think about the fact that a lot of people don’t ask what their partners like or want.

So if you take the time to talk to her about going down on her, you’ll not only be setting yourself up for pussy eating success, but you’ll also be setting yourself apart from anybody else who has ever gone down on her.

Being upset if she doesn’t orgasm

• Between 10% and 15% of women say they’ve never climaxed.
• Another 10% to 40% of women say they frequently report trouble trying to orgasm.

So it’s essential to understand that no matter how hard you try, your girl might not be able to climax.

Sometimes a woman is just not in the right headspace, whether she’s nervous, stressed, or anxious, and she just won’t get there.

And that’s ok.

After all, even if she doesn’t cum, having her pussy eaten can still be immensely pleasurable!

What’s not ok is getting mad or upset if you can’t seem to get her off. Think about it, why this pisses you off? What insecurity is lying behind this? You’re worried she will leave you? You feel so insecure in yourself that you think you won’t be able to replace her?

Man up.

Not only will you be upset for nothing, but you’ll also make her upset, which can cause future intimacy problems regarding sex.

Instead, it’s best to think of going down on her as a way to please her.

Whether she has an orgasm or not, you should still enjoy giving pleasure to your partner.

Questions

How can I practice eating pussy?

There’s really no good way to practice eating pussy other than by doing it. But by learning about the vagina and how it works, you can gain a better idea of how you can eat pussy and pleasure a woman to the best of your abilities. You can also watch videos (ideally, not porn) and talk to women about what they like.

What are the benefits of eating pussy?

Most men are turned on by eating pussy. But the biggest benefit of eating pussy is that you can turn your girl on by eating her pussy, as a way to get her ready for penetration, which can lead to better sex and better orgasms for her.

Why do people eat pussy?

Eating pussy is part of foreplay, leading up to sex. So most people eat pussy as a way to get the woman aroused, wet, and ready for penetration. It’s also true that many women can’t or don’t orgasm from penetration alone. So eating her pussy and stimulating her clit is an effective tool for helping her climax.

Why is performing cunnilingus pleasurable to the giver?

This is the equivalent of asking:

Why is squeezing a nice set of boobs pleasurable to a man?

Why it’s pleasurable to slap a gorgeous girl’s beautiful sexy ass?

You should ask these questions to mother nature not to me.

If you don’t find pleasurable licking your girl’s pussy then either don’t lick it or change girl.