How to Make a Girl Squirt (Tonight) – Squirting Tutorial 101

Learn how to make a girl squirt during sex, with your fingers, using sex toys or even in solo masturbation. Illustrated and explained step by step. Happy Squirting!

how to make a girl squirt

Squirting is somewhat of a mythical unicorn of the sex world.

Most people have heard about it – it’s been demonstrated in porn (beware of fake squirting), but not a lot of women talk about whether they have actually experienced it for themselves. In fact, some people don’t even believe it’s a thing.

Well, let’s set the record straight once and for all: yes, squirting is most definitely a thing [1], you heathen non-believers.

And yes, I will teach you how to make a girl squirt, if you ask nicely. I know you want to believe.

This tutorial is the most complete, comprehensive, no-shame resource you will find. This, ladies and gentlemen, is your squirting bible. Just think of me as your personal prophet, because I have all the answers and I will make you believe.

Before moving on to the tutorial, let’s talk about the anatomy of how squirting actually works. I’ll go put my librarian glasses on.

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What is Squirting?

Let’s start with an easy one – squirting is also referred to as female ejaculation. You know how when men come, semen comes out? This is kind of the same way. Instead of a dry orgasm, you have a wet one, where you literally squirt liquid. But not out of the vagina, as you may think, but out of the urethra. The first time it happens, it can be shocking, and 9 out of 10 times, the gal thinks she just peed herself.

Spoiler alert! She didn’t.

But we’ll address that common misconception in a minute.

What Actually Happens to Trigger a Squirting Orgasm?

What do you need to play with?

First of all, you should know that a squirting orgasm is produced through the stimulation of the G-spot. I’m sure you’re familiar with the G-spot, but if you’re not, a) shame on you, b) here’s a nifty diagram that shows you where it is, and c) get yourself some e-books on G-spot stimulation.

By now, you should know that women most commonly have two types of orgasms: clitoral orgasms (caused through stimulation of the clitoris), and vaginal (or G-spot) orgasms (caused through stimulation of the G-spot, through penetration). The squirting orgasm is a type of G-spot orgasm.

But Where is this G-Spot We Speak of?

squirting tutorial g-spot

Where is the G-Spot exactly? You don’t need to be Indiana Jones to find it…

It’s located on the front wall of her vagina, 0.5 to 2 inches up from the entrance. You should be able to feel it when you put a finger or two in, and notice that it has a size of around 1 inch and the texture is a bit different. Instead of being soft and smooth, it’s a bit harder and textured. But in order for her to be physically able to squirt, she has to be super aroused. That causes her vulva, clitoris, and G-spot to swell up, because the erectile tissue is filled with blood.

What is the Liquid and Where Does it Come From?

Got that? Good. Now let’s address that confusing as fuck business about the liquid. If you take a look at the illustration, you will see something called the Skene glands, adjacent to the urethra. These glands are the source of this whole controversy, as this is where the liquid comes from, ladies and gentlemen. Not from the vagina, and not from the bladder, but from the Skene glands.

squirting anatomy

Anatomical illustration of Skene Glands and Skene Glands Channels

The liquid is stored in the Skene glands and once your body is ready to release it and you are ready to let go, it comes out, and you can recognize it by its milky-white appearance. Hence that feeling of pressure in your urethra, similar to when you need to pee, followed by that sweet, sweet release.

How to Make a Girl Squirt Tutorial

Now we can finally move on to the actual tutorial part of this article. What do we need to know before proceeding? That there are multiple ways to stimulate the G-spot, so you’ll want to use:

  • Fingers
  • Penis
  • Toys

You can even use all three, if you’re equipped with all. It all depends on your lady and what makes her feel good. If a good pounding with a dick is enough, then count yourselves lucky. If she needs a bit of loving with expert fingers, then start working on that, instead. And if that still doesn’t cut it and she needs more, then be sure to keep some toys on hand, so you can extend and intensify her pleasure.

Part 1: Preparation

Before you can start, you first need to engage in some preparations. They’re both physical and psychological, because your entire being has to be ready for this incredible experience. Let’s just get through this essential step quickly, and then we can move on to the fun part: the actual fucking and squirting. Okay? Okay.

  • Drink water

Let’s start with the physical part: making a girl squirt is a sport of endurance, not speed. That means you’ll both be here a while, so make sure you both hydrate properly.

  • Pee before

But right after you have that drink of water, go ahead and empty those bladders, especially hers. Peeing before and after is good practice for any time you have sex, but now especially, because it will help convince her she does not, in fact, need to pee, when she gets that sensation, but to squirt.

  • Put towels on the bed

As you may know, things will hopefully get…damp once she climaxes, so minimize the damage by setting down some towels on the bed. That will help ease her embarrassment and allow her to just let loose.

  • Relax

Last, but not least, you should both relax, especially her. If she’s tense, she won’t squirt, or even orgasm. She must be completely at ease, and aroused, and her secret juices will flow right out.

Part 2: Engage in some pretty fucking awesome foreplay

But let’s not get ahead or ourselves, here. Remember what I said about how she needs to be incredibly aroused and her bits have to be all swollen and pretty much ready to explode? You can’t jackhammer your way there, honey.

But foreplay will get you her there. This is all about her, and this step is half the battle, so be as gentle, sweet, rough or dirty as she wants you to. If the lady has been having trouble getting aroused as of late, a libido supplement might help that situation out. Otherwise, just enjoy her body with all of your senses and she will, too.

  • Touch her hot spots

Always have your hands on her, exploring her body and make sure you’re always touching either her nipples or her pussy. These are the main arousal points that will get her blood rushing. You want to get her as swollen and ready as possible to get that liquid going down there.

  • Whisper in her ear

Seduction is possible without even touching her, if you whisper something dirty in her ear. It can be something sweet, something filthy, a description of what you’re doing or planning to do, a fantasy, etc.

  • Kiss, lick, and suck your way to her pleasure

Don’t let your mouth rest during foreplay. If you’re not using it at all times, then you’re doing it wrong. Are you fingering her? Then suck or bite on her nipples. Kiss her neck. Lick her clit. Hell, lick her all over, don’t let one inch of her skin dry.

  • Drown her pussy in lube

The secret to any successful sex act is to use way more lube than you think you need. Whether we’re talking about regular old penis-in-vagina sex, anal sex, or playing with toys, a wet pussy makes everything more pleasurable for everyone involved and ensures things glide smoothly.

  • Use toys to enhance her pleasure

People sometimes forget that toys can be used during foreplay, as well as during sex. Think about it – what better way to make sure that you get her aroused, swollen, and dripping? Put those motors to good use and pleasure the lady until all the blood in her body rushes to her genitals.

Option 1: Bullet vibes

Bullet vibes come in handy because they’re small, they’re powerful, and they’re very versatile. You can just grab it and go and use it to stimulate her until she’s about ready to scream. Of course, you can use one to get her clit throbbing, but you can also run it across her labia, or over her nipples to get her blood rushing.

Rocks Off 80 mm Bullet

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rocks off 80 mm bullet

Why it helps with squirting: The level of arousal is actually crucial in squirting, which is why it’s important to give the clit a powerful buzz. It’s tiny, it’s sleek, and it can be used alone or with a partner, when trying to reach dizzying levels of pleasure. The powerful motor on this toy is going to stimulate the shit out of the clitoris, taking the lady that much further in her journey towards that final, spectacular squirt.

Tech details:

  • Length: 2.5 inches
  • Width: 0.5 inches
  • Waterproof
  • 1 N battery (included)

Option 2: Oral sex simulators

I don’t know if you’re familiar with these babies, but oral sex simulators have taken the sex toy world by storm. They’re nifty little toys that replicate the sensation that oral sex offers by stimulating the clit. This isn’t to say that you shouldn’t be doing the work yourself. But your mouth could maybe be put to better use by kissing her or licking her nipples for example, while the toy works its magic.

Sqweel 2 Oral Sex Simulator

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sqweel 2 oral sex simulator

Why it helps with squirting: You know what’s better than one tongue licking your clit? 10! That’s the concept behind this toy, and it will do wonders for a woman’s level of arousal. This tongue vibrator can work on her clit while your mouth works on other things, or while you use fingers or another toy to stimulate her G-spot. Together, you can make her squirt.

Tech details:

  • Length: 5 inches
  • Built-in controller
  • 3 AAA batteries

Part 3: Stimulate her G-spot and follow her cues

And now, for the main event: stimulating her G-spot and pushing her over the edge, releasing that sweet, sweet squirting liquid. I’m sure you know how this is done, but just in case, let’s talk about all the ways and the best ways in which you can play with it.

Technique 1 – How to Make a Girl Squirt Using Fingers

What you need:

  • Fingers (preferably 2 to 3)
  • Dexterity

Fingers offer the easiest way to make things happen. Mother nature gave us hands for a reason, right? Hurray for opposable thumbs!

Method 1: Come hither

how to make a girl squirt method 1

Step 1: Once you’ve got her aroused, engorged, and ready to go, insert a finger into her vagina, at first. Play with it in and out, look for her G-spot and once you locate it, stimulate it by doing a come-hither motion. Continue for a minute or two, and then insert a second finger.

Step 2: Now you should have significantly more pressure, and you can increase it as you go. Keep paying attention to her – does it seem like she’s enjoying yourself? Are you pushing too hard? Maybe not hard enough? Your finger movements should be firm, but gentle. You don’t want to be too aggressive, because that may be counterproductive.

Step 3: Look for cues that you’ve found a rhythm that works for her and keep at it. Again, remember that this can take a while, so be patient. I hope you have the upper body strength to carry this mission out to a successful (and squirt-y) ending.

Method 2: Left-right, left-right

squirting tutorial method 2

Step 1: Get her wet and ready, as always, and then insert a finger into her vagina; look for her G-spot. Now, insert a second finger and you can start moving them together, but instead of up-and-down, like in the previous method, stimulate her G-spot from left to right. Brush your fingers from one side to another.

Step 2: As she starts getting more and more into it, start applying a bit more pressure and moving faster. You want to rub the G-spot almost like you would her clit. Remember that you do need to press quite hard in order to stimulate it properly.

Step 3: Making her squirt is all about momentum, so whatever you do, don’t stop. Keep going, maintain a pace that she enjoys, and continue until she gets that sensation that she needs to pee. Don’t let her stop, because you both know she’s just close to her squirting orgasm. Stopping to go to the bathroom for no reason will just ruin your momentum. Keep going and push her over the edge.

Method 3: In-and-out

how to make a girl squirt method 3

Step 1: Start by inserting just one or two fingers inside her, once she’s wet and ready. But instead of curling them inside her, keep them straight, and just push them in and out, like you would during intercourse. You can start slowly and build up the pace.

Step 2: Once you get her going and she’s wetter, you can increase the pace more and more and finger her harder and harder, and even add a third finger into the mix. What this essentially does is mimic fucking in a way, as the G-spot is stimulated by the same kind of movement and friction.

Step 3: Use your other hand to rub and stimulate her clit, or eat her pussy out. The double stimulation should make her orgasm hard and hopefully drenched.

Technique 2 – How to Make a Girl Squirt During Penetrative Sex

What you need:

  • A cock
  • Plenty of stamina

As I mentioned, penetration stimulates the G-spot, so for some women, just regular penetrative sex will do the trick. However, a woman is less likely to squirt this way than with fingers or toys, for example. This is because the G-spot stimulation is a secondary effect of the friction and it’s not as powerful as targeting it specifically. There’s not much I can offer here, because, well, thrusting is thrusting (you know, in and out, in and out), but I can give you some suggestions for positions that easily stimulate the G-spot.

Method 1: Woman on top

how to make a girl squirt during sex

For this one, the lady has to be on top, facing the guy, who is lying down on his back. Knees on either side of his body, his dick deep inside, you know the drill. Now, she has to lean towards the back a bit, and balance herself on his thighs. This will give him a better angle to reach the G-spot and stimulate it with every thrust.

Method 2: Dirty spooning

squirting sex position 2

This is one of my favorites, because it’s comfy and intimate for both partners, and the hands are free to roam all over her body. Lady on her side, the guy behind her, and her legs are slightly bent. But the best part is that it offers very good access to her G-spot and the position and angle makes it really easy to stimulate. You don’t have to make much effort to reach it, which means you don’t get tired easily and can do it for longer.

Method 3: Modified doggy

squirting during sex position 3

Have your girl lie down on her stomach, and place a pillow under her pelvis to elevate her hips just a bit. Now you can penetrate her from behind, giving you a great opening to her G-spot. This position is great because you can really push inside her harder, giving her G-spot extra stimulation.

Method 4: Legs on shoulders

how to make her squirt during sex position 4

The girl lies down on her back for this one, with her legs up, while the guy kneels and penetrates her like that. The girl can put her legs on his shoulders for balance. The vagina opens up more this way, which means the guy can get in deeper and harder and the G-spot is wide open and ready to be properly pounded.

Method 5: Leg humping

how to make a woman squirt position 5

Once again, the woman has the easy way out. Just lie her on her side, and straddle her left leg. Her right leg should be bend around your waist. The gal can focus her entire attention on getting you to thrust towards her sweet spot and guide her closer to that wet release.

Technique 3 – How to Make a Girl Squirt Using Sex Toys

What you need:

  • Sex toys for G-spot stimulation
  • A willingness to learn

Of course, for some women, neither fingers, nor dicks will be enough, and that is completely normal. It also doesn’t mean that you can’t get her G-spot ready to make her squirt; that’s what toys are for! Luckily for all of us, there are toys especially designed to stimulate the G-spot, so that she can reach that drenching orgasm you’re looking for.

Option 1: G-spot stimulating dildos

Let’s not beat around the bush and go straight for the killing – if you want the job to be done right, you need a dildo that targets the G-spot. These toys are usually curved in a way that allows them to be inserted easily and stimulate the G-spot effortlessly. You don’t need to contort yourself if the toy can do it for you! But first, read up on how to use a dildo.

Step 1: Have your lady sit or lie in a position that is comfortable for her. You want her to be able to focus on her pleasure and nothing else.

Step 2: Have her part her legs slightly, so that you can effortlessly insert the toy inside her. Make sure to check if it’s alright, if it feels good, or if you need to change the angle to make it comfortable.

Step 3: Insert the wand inside her and search for her G-spot. With a toy shaped especially for this purpose, a basic in-and-out movement should be enough to hit the right spot.

Step 4: Adjust the movements and the pressure according to her cues and instructions. Make sure that you are using enough pressure to properly stimulate the G-spot.

Step 5: Once you’ve found her “setting”, maintain the pace until she reaches climax and hopefully squirts.

Try this to make her squirt:

Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

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njoy pure wand stainless steel dildo

Why it helps with squirting: The first thing you will notice is that this wand is curved, and that’s because this one is especially shaped to stimulate the G-spot. The special shape follows the curves of her body and allows you to penetrate her so you can push against her G-spot again and again to make her come, and in a wet kind of way. She can also play with it on her own, of course; the toy is easy to hold and use.

Tech details:

  • Length: 9 inches
  • Circumference: 5.5 inches
  • Waterproof

Option 2: G-spot stimulating vibrators

Just like G-spot dildos, G-spot vibrators are meant to stimulate your G-spot. They’re curved and the vibrations rumble against the G-spot, offering delicious sensations and a quick and easy orgasm that will facilitate squirting. Never used one? Here’s how to use a vibrator, including for G-spot stimulation.

Step 1: Her comfort is key, so just like with our other option, have her place herself in comfortable position that allows penetration and at an angle that allows the easy stimulation of her G-spot.

Step 2: Constantly check with her regarding angle of penetration, comfort level, what feels best, etc.

Step 3: Insert the vibrator inside her slowly and search for her G-spot. You can either turn the vibrator on before inserting it or you can turn it on once you reach her G-spot.

Step 4: Allow the vibrator to rumble against her G-spot and stimulate it accordingly. Play with the settings on the toy to increase or decrease the speed, change the vibrating pattern, adjust the position of the toy, etc.

Step 5: Pay attention to her physical and vocal cues and if you’re doing it right, keep going until she reaches a wet climax.

Try this to make her squirt:

Je Joue G-Kii Bendable G-spot Vibrator

je joue g kii bendable g spot vibrator

Why it helps with squirting: The special thing about this toy is that it’s curved, and not only that, but it’s bendy. The flexible quality of this vibrator means that it can mold to the shape of each woman’s body. Because as we all know, there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to genitals and toys. The more you can personalize it to her body, the more successful it will be in making her squirt all over the place.

Tech details:

  • Length: 8 inches
  • Waterproof
  • 5 vibration patterns
  • 5 vibration intensities

OhMiBod Esca

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ohmibod esca

Why it helps with squirting: I wanted to include this one as well, because, while it’s still a G-spot vibrating wand, this can enable you to make a gal squirt from far away. That’s right, whether you’re across the room or across the globe, you can help your girl achieve a squirting orgasm by controlling this toy through an app. It can also hook up to male sex toys, so you can have remote sex. Ain’t technology grand?

Tech details:

  • Long-distance control though Wi-Fi
  • Bluetooth range up to 25 ft.
  • USB rechargeable
  • 1 year warranty

Option 3: Vibrating cock rings

This one is as much for you as it is for her, but since we’re all about her pleasure with squirting, I’ll focus on that part. A vibrating cock ring can be super helpful if the lady is capable of having a G-spot orgasm from penetration, but needs more help getting properly aroused and pushed right to that edge. The double stimulation will do the trick beautifully and audibly.

Step 1: Put the cock ring on as you would normally. Vibrating cock rings are typically stretchy, so make sure you put it on an erect penis.

Step 2: Assume your preferred position, which should be something that:
Allows for a good angle for G-spot stimulation
Allows your vibrating cock ring to make contact with her clitoris

Step 3: Carry on as you normally would, thrusting according to her cues and making sure that the vibrator is stimulating her clit.

Step 4: Once you find a good rhythm or position, keep going until she reaches her squirt-y finish line.

Warning! Do not use the cock ring for more than 30 minutes. The way the toy works is that it constricts circulation in order to maintain the erection for longer, so you want to follow instructions and take it off after 30 minutes to avoid issues.

Try this to make her squirt:

Adam and Eve Couple’s Enhancer Ring

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adam and eve couples enhancer ring

Why it helps with squirting: Some good vibrations not only never hurt anyone, but they can be excellent for enhancing pleasure during sex. While you’re pounding away at her G-spot, the buzzing is going to make sure her clit is stimulated and throbbing. Extra points for the nubby texture. It doesn’t hurt that it also keeps you going for longer; after all, reaching that final point can take a while.

Tech details:

  • Length: 2.5 inches
  • Width: 1.5 inches
  • Waterproof
  • Battery operated (included)

What About Masturbation?

If you’re a vagina owner looking to reach a squirting climax on your own, then rest assured that it’s possible. In fact, you can use all the information I’ve already included, because the process is the same. The only thing different might be the angle and the approach, so let’s address that.

Step 1: For an optimal experience and precise stimulation, you’ll want to see what’s going on. So why don’t you take a seat on the floor, bend your knees, and put a mirror in front of you. You want to be able to see your vulva.

Step 2: Now, use your fingers to open the labia majora (that’s your external pussy lips, for you commoners). If you push your pelvic muscle forward, you should be able to see your G-spot through your vaginal entrance. Please note that not everyone will be able to, especially if your G-spot is higher.

Step 3: For those of you who do have a high G-spot, make smart use of a see-through speculum. It’s not the sexiest thing ever, but it enables you to gain full knowledge of your body. That comes in handy for precision work like G-spot stimulation. So, turn it 90 degrees and make sure the penetrative bits are aimed towards the outside. You should now be able to take a look.

Step 4: Once you get an idea of where it is, you can start feeling for it using your fingers. The movement is the same – using two fingers in a come-hither position, start applying pressure on the front wall of your vagina, stimulating your G-spot.

You will be able to feel it and know how much pressure you need and what feels good, so listen to what your body is telling you. Don’t be afraid to go faster and harder, if it feels right. After stimulating the area for a while, you will start to notice the feeling enhancing, and how you’re getting closer and closer to an orgasm.

Step 5: Maintain your focus, relax, and allow your mind to be overwhelmed by the pleasure. At this point, you should start feeling a pressure like you need to pee. Don’t ignore the feeling and don’t fight against it. You went to the bathroom before, so you know it’s not that. Just let it go and let it happen, or alternatively, push forward; sometimes you do need that gentle nudge. Ready, get set – squirt!

Don’t forget! You can also use the toys I mentioned exactly like you would with a partner. The dildos and vibrators are curved and easy to use on your own, so you should be able to make them work for your body.

So, What did We Learn From This?

Hopefully, the main take-away should have been how to make a girl squirt in so many ways. Now you know how to do it during intercourse, with your fingers, and even with toys. You just have to practice, practice, practice, and be prepared for her to drench you in her special juices. You know you love it.

[1] Squirting research from the US National Library of Medicine National Institutes of Health

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