We all know the sex toy industry can be a bit heteronormative, so we’re going to give our lesbian readers some love this week with a buying guide to the best lesbian sex toys.
Each and every one of these best lesbian sex toys is Lesbian Approved™, so if you’re lesbian, bisexual, or bi-curious, keep reading. If you’re just a creeper, keep reading, anyway. We never turn down readership, man, so keep creepin’ away.
Top 3 Lesbian Sex Toys
- nJoy Pure Wand – Use it as a double dildo, temperature play is a bonus.
- BDSM Restraint System – Lock her in, for some naughty fun.
- Lelo Enigma – Powerful orgasms that will leave you shivering on the bed.
We’ve reviewed 18 more great sex toys for lesbian couples below!
Lesbian Sex 101
Always been curious about how lesbian sex works? This is your lucky day. Here’s a handy little guide:
Step 1: Be a lesbian
Step 2: Have sex
And you’re done!
No, but seriously – obviously, sex will work a little differently for a same-sex couple. The conventional penis-in-vagina interaction is not going to work, because one of those components is being replaced – in this case, the dick. So now you’ve got two of something, but none of the other.
Thankfully, God gave us sex toys. And fingers! And mouths! So, we’re covered. One of the things to remember here is that just because there’s no penis-haver involved, that doesn’t mean there is no penetration, or that no one is wielding a cock.
You’ll see what I mean.
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Best Lesbian Sex Toys by Type of Stimulation
Okay, now that we’ve got that out of the way, let’s move on to the most popular toys ladies who love other ladies enjoy. I’ve chosen the types of toys that most efficiently please two ladies, and I’m gonna present them in different categories, depending on what you’re looking to simulate.
Clits, G-spots, or both? Let’s see what we can come up with.
Clitoral Stimulation Sex Toys – Rub That Clit, Girl
A major part of lesbian sexual fun involves teasing, playing, touching, caressing, and other lovely strokes using fingers as a main tool. They’re severely underrated, as they can even help you make a girl squirt.
And while fingers are far from useless on their own, if there is anything I’ve learned while working in this business is that any sensation can be enhanced with the right toy, and why wouldn’t you? That’s why we have finger sleeves.
Nubby ones or vibrating ones (or both!), they can be used by anyone, but they especially come in handy (get it? Handy?) for lesbian couples who rely on fingers more than heterosexual ones do.
1) Finger Stimulators
If you’ve never used toys, or you don’t want anything fancy, vibrating, or overly powerful, you can start out simply enough, by just helping out your most basic tools – your fingers. You can use these gel sleeves with a nubby texture to enhance the sensation you offer yourself or your partner.
In fact, since this pack has 2 of them, you can either wear one on either hand and stimulate yourself and your partner at the same time, or you can each have one and rub it all over the other one’s clit. It may not be a complicated gadget, but it can still help produce fireworks.
The tech specs:
- Length: 3 inches
- Circumference: 4 inches
- Waterproof
2) Adam & Eve G-Spot Touch Finger Vibe
Did you know finger vibes were a thing? Shamefully, neither did I! It works just like any other finger sleeve, in that it’s flexible, made of silicone, and adds that extra bit of length, girth and stimulation to your finger movements.
Of course, the little extra that makes this special is that it’s a vibrating sleeve, and especially designed to stimulate the G-spot. Equipped with a remote control and an ergonomic design, it’s now easier than ever to achieve that elusive G-spot orgasm.
The tech specs:
- Length: 5 inches
- Width: 1.7 inches
- 2 x AAA batteries
3) GLUVR Rechargeable Finger Vibrator
This one’s super interesting. It’s kind of like a sleeve – or a glove. It goes on two of your fingers, but unlike other sleeves, it doesn’t have that nubby texture. Well then, what does it do? I’ll tell you what it does; it vibrates.
That means that you can use your fingers to pinch, touch, rub, caress, and stimulate whatever part of the body you want, and offer a much more focused, precise stimulation than you would with a bullet vibrator, for example. The added grip and control really makes the difference.
The tech specs:
- Length: 3.2 inches
- Diameter: 1.2 inches
- Waterproof
- Built-in controller
- Rechargeable
4) Adam’s Extension Penis Enhancer
I’m going to suggest an uncommon use for this toy. See, this is technically a penis extender. It’s meant to add some length and girth to your tool for an enhanced experience. However, a lot of them have a small enough width (1.5 to 2 inches) that allows them to be used with fingers instead of dicks, as well.
This one’s made out of a stretchy material that accommodates different girths, regardless if you want to use it on two fingers, for example, on a dildo, or on a dick. The shape is nice and dick-like for that extra stimulation with the head, and it’s nubby to stimulate your clit!
The tech specs:
- Length: 6 inches
- Width: 1.5 inches
- Flexible
Tongue/Oral Simulators – Put Your Mouth to Better Use
Most people (including ladies of any sexual persuasion or orientation) enjoy receiving oral pleasure. And while feeling a partner’s tongue on your pussy can be a mind-blowing sensation, sometimes their mouth is otherwise occupied. Besides using an oral sex simulator, that is.
These babies accurately mimic the sensation of having someone use their tongue to give you pleasure. JACKPOT.
5) Lelo Sona Clitoral Massager
This clitoral vibrator is brand new and coming at your clit with sonic waves that even stimulate the inner parts of your clitoris! Is that a lie they’re telling you to sell this shit? Probably. But if it works, do we give a fuck?
Apparently they’re saying this thing provides a sensation “you’ve never felt before”, which intrigues my pussy and it may do the same for yours AND your partner’s.
Take turns pushing this thing up against the other’s cooch and see what happens when your mouth isn’t occupied, but their pussy is. Just think of the possibilities when hands-free and mouth-free pleasure is possible!
A couple of videos from LELO about the Lelo Sona clitoral massager:
and another one:
The tech specs:
- Length: 4.5 inches
- Width: 1.9 inches
- Rechargeable
6) Satisfyer 2
If intense sensations are what your partner is looking for, then you might be interested in buying what this toy is selling. Using some novel technology, the Satisfyer can take care of her business while you work on…other business.
Ass, vagina, tits, mouth – come on, I don’t have to teach you these things. Think of the heights of pleasure you can reach by having this thing stimulate your clit while being fingered at the same time.
The Satisfyer in action:
The tech specs:
- Length: 7.2 inches
- Width: 2.7 inches
- 2 x AAA batteries
- Waterproof
7) Sqweel 2 Oral Simulator
The name of this thing always makes me laugh, because it sounds so cute, but it’s so truly depraved. See these little paddles? They won’t be slapping your ass (although, don’t be afraid to ask for that, if it’s what you want), but instead, they’ll be lapping at your clit, like little rotating tongues.
All you have to do is sit back, close your eyes, and enjoy the feeling of someone’s tongue licking you, with no third part required. That leaves your partner free to capture your attention in other ways, if you know what I mean.
The tech specs:
- Length: 5 inches
- 3 x AAA batteries
- Waterproof
- Built-in controller
Penetrative Toys, Because We Secretly Love a Jackhammer
Dildos – Penetrative phallic pleasure (say that three times fast!) sans penis
No, lesbians do not enjoy male cock. That doesn’t mean they can’t enjoy plastic cock, though. Especially since it can even be double-ended! It looks like a monstrosity; it’s true. But never before has there been a toy that can satisfy two ladies at the same time, together. And no men required!
8) Share Vibrator
The website says this one’s a “strapless strap-on”, and while I know what they’re getting at, I relegated that category to strap-ons that actually…strap on.
This is called the Share Vibrator, and it’s supposedly a vibrating dildo that you share with your partner, so that you can both enjoy equal, tandem pleasure. Because sharing is caring. How many more times can I say “share” in one paragraph?
The tech specs:
- Length: 6 inches; 4 inches
- Width: 1.4 inches; 1.5 inches
- Waterproof
- 5 vibrating functions
9) Doc Johnson Realistic Double Dildo
Regular ol’ dildos are great, whether you’re using it to pleasure yourself or if you’re using it to bring your partner to orgasm. And if one dildo is great, then two must be fantastic!
This dildo is double-ended, so no one gets upset, jealous, bored, or frustrated when one partner is enjoying a good dicking down. One end can stimulate a partner’s G-spot, while the other one can stimulate the other partner’s.
The tech specs:
- Length: 12 inches
- Circumference: 4.7 inches
- Waterproof
10) Njoy Fun Wand
Some ladies find dildos to be distasteful, because let’s be real, they look like plastic dicks and if you don’t…enjoy male anatomy, there’s really no point in shoving a fleshy peen up your vag, right? It’s kinda weird-looking, anyway.
That’s why there are more discrete alternatives that are less phallic, and more elegant, like wands. This one can tickle the G-spot. Or the anus. Or both. AT THE SAME TIME. Not on the same person, though.
The tech specs:
- Length: 8 inches
- Balls: 0.7 – 1.2 inches
- Stainless steel
Strap-ons – Man, I Feel Like a Woman
And if just regular ol’ plastic dicks can generate so much fun, just imagine what you can do once you can wield one hands-free! It’s not about mimicking a guy jackhammering away (unless you’re into that, roleplaying is hot!), but about opening up some fun new possibilities for partnered play.
If you’ve never done this before, you might want to read about using a strap-on.
11) Lesbian Strap-on Harness
If you’re new to the world of plastic dick strapped onto your body, then we’ll start with something simple. This is pretty much your basic, run of the mill strap-on. You’ve got the dildo harness that you use to secure the toy to your body, and then you’ve got the actual dildo.
There are unlimited varieties for this toy and we’re going to discuss a few below, but for beginners or couple who are looking to experiment, this is a great way to dip your toes into this particular kink.
The tech specs:
- Diameter: 1.1 inches
12) Double Penetrator Anal Vibrator Strap-on
There’s… a lot going on with this anal vibrator, Jesus Christ. Where there’s room for one fake cock, there’s room for two – we have two holes, gals; let’s use them! So, this is just like your regular strap-on, except the dildo has a cock ring attached that’s another dildo, essentially.
One goes in your pussy and the other in your butt, for double the pleasure. You know what else is great about it? IT VIBRATES. I’ll tell you right now, I’ll award extra points to anything that vibrates.
The tech specs:
- Length: 5.5 inches
- Circumference: 3.5 inches
- 3 x LR44 batteries
13) Double Delight Strap-on
This toy also achieves double penetration, but not in the same way as that other toy. This one is possibly even more depraved, if you can imagine that. It’s why we love it. So, it’s a double dildo, just like normal ones you’d use, except it’s also a strap-on.
But instead of only pleasuring the person you’re thrusting into, you’re also pleasuring yourself at the same time. Each end goes into a pussy. Again, the word of the day is “sharing”. Think of those double popsicles we used to break in half as kids – one for you, one for your friend, so that both pussies are satisfied.
The tech specs:
- Length: 14 inches
- Width: 1.5 inches
- Harness: 46 inches
Bullet Vibrators for Lesbian Couples – Faster than a Speeding Bullet
Bullet vibes are excellent for lesbian couples because they are so versatile. Use them to stimulate your partner externally, by playing with them on the labia and clitoris, or opt for a love egg for internal stimulation.
Or why not two? Double love eggs are ideal – just one motor stimulating two pussies at the same time. What’s more romantic than that?
14) Bedtime Bullet
I’m sure you’re familiar with bullet vibes and love eggs, but what if you could have them together? One remote control, two different toys you can swap out and power up.
We know that pussies have different tastes (yes, that does work with multiple meanings, doesn’t it?) and needs, and that some prefer external stimulation with bullets, while others would rather have a love egg to wear on the inside.
You and your partner can have the best of both worlds and everyone gets what they want from this Basic Plus sexual menu. Bon appetit!
The tech specs:
- Length: 2 inches
- Circumference: 3 inches
- 2 x AAA batteries
15) Waterproof Double Silver Bullets
If you’ve ever used a bullet vibe, you know how this works (or if you bothered to read the paragraphs above, to be honest – did you?), but this one is a little bit special. Think about everything that a normal bullet does and the power it has, and double that.
This toy comes with not one, but two bullets, so that you can share the good vibrations and play together. Why have two separate ones, when you can have just one remote and control both bullets while you and your partner both indulge in stereo sensations?
The tech specs:
- Length: 2.2 inches
- Width: 1 inch
- 2 x AA batteries
- Waterproof
Vibrators – I’m Talking about Good Vibrations
This will come as no surprise, because most ladies love vibrators. Vibes can be an excellent tool for lesbian couples, because the show is mainly about the clitoris. Thankfully, however, vibes come in all shapes and sizes, and for all sorts of different purposes, including G-spot vibrators.
16) We-Vibe Sync
The advantage of this toy is that it’s designed to be used in a coupled setting, so there is no awkward fumbling or wasting tons of time trying to make it work. This toy has a dual purpose of stimulating the G-spot with the internal component and the clitoris with the external component.
While only one partner actually wears the toy, both partners can enjoy the external vibrations. Heterosexual couples can use it as well, but it works so much better when both partners are female, as it stimulates 1 G-spot and 2 clits. Talk about 2-in-1!
What’s interesting here is that it syncs up to your phone – it’s why it’s called Sync. That allows you to play with vibrating patterns, or allow your partner to do it.
Here is a video about the We-Vibe Sync:
The tech specs:
- Length: 3 inches
- USB charged
- Waterproof
- 90-minute run time
17) Mr. Big Rabbit Vibrator
The only “man” you need in your bedroom is Mr. Big. Girthy, ribbed for your pleasure and vibrating, this toy can add some much-needed spice to your sex life. I wonder if this is what people refer to when they talk about being an “animal” in the bedroom.
And speaking of the animal, the rabbit ears are the special feature here, as they stimulate your clit and your partner’s, depending on the position. This is a classic sex toy, so if you like what you see, you can look into our guide to the best rabbit vibrators.
The tech specs:
- Length: 10 inches
- Circumference: 4.6 inches
- 4 x AA batteries
- Built-in controller
18) Lelo Siri 2 Vibrator
Now, let’s say you prefer something quiet, or maybe you’re forced by the circumstances. Maybe you’re in a hotel room, staying with a relative who has kids, or currently in your in-laws’ guest room, squished together in a twin bed.
And you’d like to get frisky, but you don’t want everyone and their mom to hear, and certainly not yours. That’s a feature that the Lelo Siri offers – discrete pleasure, just above a whisper. I don’t know about that name, though – if you ask it something, will it respond?
Cause yelling “Siri, fuck me harder” isn’t great.
The tech specs:
- Length: 4 inches
- Width: 2 inches
- Rechargeable
- 8 stimulation patterns
Further reading:
Cosmopolitan – The Ultimate Sex Toy Guide for Lesbian Couples
About Deon Black
Hi I’m Courtney and I’ve tried some toys alone but I really would love to try the strapless dildo that toy would be a lot of fun for my friend and me
#8 is the closest to what I’ve always thought would work the best. There are a few thing I would design a little different. But Great job !!