Fleshlight ICE Lady Crystal Review – Clear, See Through Fleshlight

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I did expect the Fleshlight Ice Lady to be transparent but… I was not prepared for the rest. It turned out that voyeurism isn’t the main benefit of the clear Fleshlight Ice.

So what was it?

With no doubt whatsoever, the number one reason to buy the see through Fleshlight is the way this male masturbator feels, the suction… Oh man this thing is addictive. Just thinking about it makes me want to quit writing this Fleshlight Ice review right now and go have some fun with her…

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But let’s go one step at a time.

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Fleshlight Ice Crystal Delivered to My House

Fleshlight Ice was delivered together with Fleshlight Flight and V-Stroker Adaptor in a box that was so plain, boring and anonymous that for a moment I really had no idea what it contained.

On the package, look for the sender, it says in a tiny font: ILF, LLC which is the name of the company behind Fleshlight.

Anonymous delivery is a common practice nowadays, and all sex toys we have ever reviewed here were delivered anonymously, but I know that if you have never bought a sex toy online, or if you have never bought a Fleshlight yet, this is something important for you to know.

So yes, let me reassure you, Fleshlight’s packages are totally plain and discreet.

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Ice Fleshlight First Impressions

Fleshlight Ice came dismounted in two easy parts: case and sleeve. The case looks huge, I also say it in the video, I think that even John Holmes could masturbate with this sex toy.

Completely transparent with nice lead on the wider end and featuring a killer suction cap at the bottom part, the Ice case is around 9-10 in long. I don’t know how long your penis is, but I’m pretty sure it’ll fit in there.

To be honest at the beginning I did think that Fleshlight Ice was too big, but then when you try her, you realize she’s not. The length actually gives you more thrusting options, comfort, and it definitely works.

I have said this once before and let me say it again, the guy who invented Fleshlight should win the nobel prize for masturbation.

fleshlight Ice after washing

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Fleshlight Crystal Sleeve in Detail

Fleshlight Ice comes with the Crystal textured sleeve which besides feeling awesome (I’m warning you again: this pocket pussy is addictive, she feels just too good – especially in suction mode… hmmm) looks great too.

I had a Lady orifice and even though at the beginning I didn’t plan to play with her… When you add the lube and spread it on these soft, warm and moist labia your animal instinct comes out and you can’t stop touching her.

When you touch the Ice Crystal sleeve for the first time it feels pretty sticky instead. I don’t know why and I don’t know if this feature is the secret of her suction power, or if it’s due to the material used to create that see through look.

As soon as you warm her up and lube her up, the stickiness disappears and you simply enjoy incredible stimulation throughout the whole length of your penis.

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Ice Lady Fleshlight is Ready to Work For Me

I got a bowl, I filled it up with some hot water and threw the Crystal sleeve inside it. After 5 minutes I picked her up, I inserted her into the case (which is pretty straightforward really, you just need to put her in) and then added some of the free sample Fleshlube inside her.

Don’t be stingy with the lube, just pour it inside, on the labia and even on your penis which should be erect at this stage.

When I entered Fleshlight Ice the first time, the very first thing I felt was the warmth of the sleeve… hmm… yeah…

Then as I moved in I felt my whole penis massaged all over the place with different sensual textures and the pleasure was so intense that it started moving from my genital area throughout my spine and I was getting goose bumps from the intensity of that warm sucking feeling.

I’ll be honest with you, I didn’t really understand what was going on in there.

Folks at Fleshlight like to describe each Fleshlight sleeve in detail section by section, and I guess you get to that level once you are familiar with the toy, but the first time I tried it I wasn’t really able to distinguish anything at all.

The pleasure is very intense and you’ll just want to focus on enjoying that sensation and make it last as long as you can.

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Fleshlight Ice Lady’s Suction

I haven’t told you the best part yet.

That tiny little suction cap at the smaller end of the Fleshlight Ice makes a huge difference in the way you feel her on your penis.

If you rotate and tighten up the cap, you really feel your penis sucked while your stroke it with your Fleshlight. The sensation is intense, and so the noise though. If you share a house with family or friends you may want to keep the tight suction for when you are by yourself (or maybe just play some loud music to cover the noise).

If you loosen up the end cap instead, the Fleshlight Ice slides in more smoothly which is also a very pleasurable and intense sensation (and much more quiet too). A combination of both tight and loose suction is what “works” best for me.

One weird thing about Fleshlight Ice is the zoom effect it has on your penis. There must be some light distortion going on through the transparency because your penis looks bigger, longer and thicker inside Fleshlight Ice.

So if you have ever dreamed of having a bigger penis (and who hasn’t!) this male sex toy can give you a glimpse of how that would look like.

The only downside I have experienced with Fleshlight Ice is after I come. As you know the head of your penis becomes more sensitive after the orgasm, and when that happens I feel like I can’t thrust anymore inside the Ice because the feeling is too strong to be handled.

With a girl you usually keep thrusting for a little longer after you come, but with Fleshlight Ice I feel like I can’t and need to withdraw. It might even be that you like extreme sensations and find that exciting, but for me it doesn’t work.

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How to Wash Your Transparent Fleshlight Ice

I remember before getting Fleshlight Ice I was a little worried about the washing part. Everything is fun before you start using her, but then arrives the moment when you are done and need to clean her.

I was worried that this would be too time consuming or too boring and that it would have discouraged me from using Fleshlight Ice again. I was wrong.

Cleaning a Fleshlight is really easy and it takes no time at all. Just let the water run through the sleeve from the top to the bottom and that will do half of the job. Then rinse the end cap (which will contain your semen), quickly rinse the case and you’re done.

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What is The Fleshlight Ice Lady?

Ah, the infamous Fleshlight Ice Lady! Brace yourself for an icy, see-through adventure, my friend.

The Fleshlight Ice Lady is an innovative twist on a classic product! Rather than being pink or skin colored, the Fleshlight Ice Lady is completely see-through, providing you with a one-of-a-kind and visually stimulating experience.

The Ice Lady is crafted with the same high-quality SuperSkin material found in other Fleshlight models, ensuring lifelike texture and incredible sensations when you slip yourself inside.

However, as you can see in my videos and photos above, both the outer case, and the sleeve are completely see-through, so you can watch your penis slide in and out until… well… you get the picture!

What does the Fleshlight Ice Lady look and feel like?

The Fleshlight Ice Lady looks exactly like a traditional Fleshlight case, with the overall shape of the toy being similar to that of a large flashlight.

However, the main difference between a traditional Fleshlight and a Fleshlight Ice is that both the case and sleeve are completely transparent.

This transparency provides a window into a world of pleasure where you can observe every delightful twist and turn your penis makes as you thrust in and out, making it one of the best Fleshlights on the market for voyeurs and BDSM enthusiasts alike.

There’s truly something extra sexy about being able to see yourself as you slide in and out!

Furthermore, the orifice of the Ice Lady looks exactly like a vagina, with the same exception that it’s also completely see-through.

In terms of how the Fleshlight Ice Lady feels, well I gave you a quite explicit description above in this review.

The Ice Lady sleeve has a unique pattern of internal bumps, ridges, and textures that are sure to make every thrust extra titillating.

Does the Fleshlight Ice Lady work?

Well, if you’re asking if the Fleshlight Ice Lady has a job and earns money, no, it doesn’t work.

But if you’re asking whether or not the Ice Lady is capable of turning you on, stimulating your penis until you’re ready to blow, and letting you watch it in first-person while it’s all going down, then yes, absolutely, this Fleshlight works!

So if you’re looking for a lady friend to help you pay your rent or cover some of your grocery bill, you might want to look elsewhere.

But if you’re looking for a sexy, see-through sex toy that’s 100% capable of showing you a good time, then buy it right now!

How To Use Fleshlight Ice Lady

Well, my friend, using a Fleshlight Ice Lady is exactly like using any other Fleshlight. If you’re running out of ideas, I have written a full guide on how to use a Fleshlight a while ago.

You simply lube things up, insert your penis, then move it in and out until you’re done. Magic!

And if you’re a dude, you really shouldn’t have too much trouble figuring out how to do this, mother nature has built you for it!

The back and forth, in and out part is pretty much in our nature, right boys?

But, there are also a few things to keep in mind to ensure that you have the best experience possible with Fleshlight Ice Lady.

  1. Pre-warming your sleeve: Even at room temperature, the Ice Sleeve is going to feel phenomenal. But if you really want a hot and sexy experience, I recommend warming your sleeve up before going to town. You can do this either by using a branded Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer, or you soak your Ice Lady sleeve in hot water for a few minutes, which is just as effective.
  2. Lubrication is a must: Don’t be stingy with the lube, my friend. Remember, you’re about to glide into a realm of delight, which won’t feel so good if things are dry. So generously apply a water-based Fleshlight lubricant to both your penis and your toy to ensure a smooth and slippery experience.
  3. Mounting your Ice Lady: Luckily, the Ice case is the exact same size as most other Fleshlight cases, which means that it should be compatible with the Fleshlight Shower Mount. So for an extra sexy, visually-stimulating Fleshlight experience, you might want to try using the Ice Lady with the Shower Mount for a completely hands-free experience.
  4. Post bliss aftercare: After you’ve braved the crystal interiors of your Ice Lady and reached your peak of pleasure, give yourself a few minutes to bask in your post-orgasm bliss. Savor the satisfaction provided by your Ice Lady, but then make sure to clean your Fleshlight by giving it a wash before letting it dry and putting it away until next time.

Can I use Fleshlight’s Renewing Powder on my Ice Lady?

Renewing Powder is meant to be used to keep your Fleshlights feeling soft and silky smooth, just like the first time you took her out of the box.

However, don’t use the Renewing Powder on any see-through, clear Fleshlight sleeves, such as the Ice Lady.

While the powder will still help rejuvenate the flesh of your sleeve, it can also have an adverse effect on the transparency.

And since half the fun of using the Fleshlight Ice Lady is that you’re able to watch yourself slide in and out, you really don’t want to mess with it.

Can I heat my Fleshlight Ice Lady up in the microwave?

No! Absolutely not! Please, do not ever try to warm up your Fleshlight in a microwave or oven.

Not only is this likely to melt and destroy your beloved sex toy, but even if it survives being in your microwave, you could end up shoving your penis into a hole that’s too hot to handle.

In all seriousness, warming your Fleshlight up in a microwave or oven can lead to serious injuries, which we’re sure you’d rather not have to discuss with your doctor!

Look above and follow what I do in this review, notice how I put the sleeves in a bowl of warm water? Yes, that’s the way to do it.

7 Fleshlight Ice Usage Tips

Here are a few tips based on my experience with Fleshlight Ice, if you have any more suggestions feel always free to add them at the bottom of this review.

1Use a Pillow

Put your Fleshlight Ice at the edge of the bed with a pillow on top of it, allowing only the orifice to sneak out of the pillow. Keep the pillow down with one hand and thrust inside it like if it’s a doggy styled partner. That feels awesome as you can move your hips back and forth making the whole experience even more realistic and exciting.

2Use The Right Amount of Lube

If you put too much lube (I did that the first time) it will leak from the bottom of the case or from the top as you thrust. A lot of lube feels great, but if you go for that option, I would suggest you to put a towel underneath you so that you don’t make too much of a mess.

3Water Based Lube is Better

Following the above tip, use water based lube, ideally the Fleshlube itself. I have tried Fleshlight ICE with both Fleshlube and other lubes I use for sex and found that Fleshlube feels better (well, it’s designed for it, isn’t it?). Here is more about the best lube for Fleshlight.

4Have a Towel Close to You

If you put some lube on your penis too, have a towel or something to dry your hand before grabbing the toy and start stroking. If your hands are slippery you won’t be able to regulate the suction cap (you’ll still be able to thrust).

5Experiment New Angles

Rotate Fleshlight Ice and find the thrusting angle that you like best. When you rotate that pocket pussy, the stimulation feels a little different and I have found that some positions are more arousing than others. Just experiment.

6No Baby Powder

Don’t use baby powder on Fleshlight Ice or she’ll lose her transparency. Also, don’t use any soap with her. If you want to clean her but feel like water is not enough, get some Fleshwash which is cheap and lasts a long time.

7Let Her Breathe!

After you have washed the Crystal sleeve leave her on a towel or somewhere ventilated to dry. Sometimes I just leave her in my bathroom on the bath. When I wake up the day after my Crystal sleeve is usually dry and ready for the next round.

Fleshlight Ice Lady Vs. Regular Fleshlights

When it comes to pleasure-packed experiences, all Fleshlights are bound to blow your mind, or well, other things.

They’re all expertly designed to deliver realistic sensations and make you question why you ever settled for anything less.

However, if you have a penchant for watching or harbor somewhat of a voyeuristic fetish, the Fleshlight Ice Lady is your best option.

While regular Fleshlights are sure to provide an amazing experience, the Ice Lady adds an exciting visual element to the mix.

The crystal-clear sleeve allows you to indulge in a front-row seat to the action, witnessing every twist and turn as if you were a saucy spectator at a naughty show.

And the best part? Your penis is the star!

Fleshlight Ice Lady alternatives

When it comes to satisfying all of your carnal desires, the Fleshlight Ice Lady is just the tip of the iceberg, my friend.

Lucky for you, Fleshlight offers a ton of different sleeves and designs, ensuring that you can find something that is guaranteed to tickle your fancy.

  • Fleshlight Girls: Fleshlight Girls is the brand’s lineup of sleeves that are molded directly from the naughty bits of your favorite erotic film stars. So if you’ve ever fantasized about getting freaky with Riley Reid, Stoya, Mia Malkova, or a handful of other sexy adult stars, you’re in for a real treat!
  • Fleshlight Flight: Looking for something more discreet and travel-friendly? The Fleshlight Flight lineup has got you covered. These compact and sleek models are smaller, and designed to be more discreet than classic Fleshlights, making them the perfect companion for your pleasure on the go. They may not come with in-flight entertainment, but they’ll surely make your solo journeys a whole lot more exciting.
  • Classic Fleshlights: They say that the classics never go out of style. With the classic Fleshlights, you have the freedom to mix and match various sleeves and cases to build your own Fleshlight and customize your pleasure experience. Get creative, explore different textures, and find the perfect arrangement that makes your toes curl and your heart race.

So, my adventurous friend, as you can see, the Fleshlight universe is vast and full of amazing, tantalizing options.

And if all that wasn’t quite enough, you can pair any of these sex Ice Lady alternatives with your favorite Fleshlight accessories, like a Shower Mount, Sleeve Warmer, and Air dryer.

Or, if a branded Fleshlight toy isn’t your thing, you’ll also be glad to know there’s a whole other universe of Kiiroos, blowjob machines, sex dolls, and so much more out there just waiting to be explored!

Where Can I Buy The Fleshlight Ice Lady?

If you’re searching for a Fleshlight Ice Lady, you can probably find it for sale from a bunch of third-party sex toy retailers.

A few popular shops that I like are:

  • Lovehoney: As a leading sex toy retailer, Lovehoney has a massive selection of hot, sexy toys just waiting for you to explore. They may not have the largest selection of Fleshlight products, but they definitely are a trustworthy retailer for your sex toy shopping needs.
  • Adam & Eve: A&E is another highly reputable retailer where you can find Fleshlight, Fleshlight accessories, and all sorts of other sex toys that are guaranteed to get your engines revving.
  • Fleshlight’s official website: However, if you want to ensure you’re getting a genuine Ice Lady, we recommend heading straight to Fleshlight’s website to make your purchase.

By purchasing directly from the manufacturer, you can guarantee that you’ll be getting the best price, and an authentic Ice Lady that is sure to send shivers down your spine in all the right ways.

What are the best Fleshlight Ice Lady accessories?

Fleshlight sells a range of accessories that can complement and enhance your experience with the Fleshlight Ice Lady.

For instance, we’ve already mentioned the Fleshlight Shower Mount and Sleeve Warmer, and we’re sure you can see why either of these would make a great addition to your masturbation routine.

But you can also purchase accessories, such as Fleshlube, drying units, cock rings, and so much more that can help make your experience much more satisfying!

Buy a bunch of them and see what works for you. I think the best accessories are the Shower Mount and Sleeve Warmer.

Fleshlight Ice Series: Which One Should You Get?

As part of their see-through Ice series, Fleshlight has a total of 6 products that you can choose from.

There’s the Ice Lady, Ice Butt, Flight Aviator, GO Torque Ice, Quickshot Vantage, and Quickshot Turbo, all of which can 100% see-through, allowing you to have a hot and sexy experience with a first-person view.

With that many see-through Ice products, it might be challenging to choose the one you like the most.

So which one should you choose?

The answer is simple: The Ice Lady I reviewed in this article. After a decade it’s still a top selling toy and for a reason.

Believe me if I tell you I have seen a lot of Fleshlights appearing and disappearing over the years (Fleshlight Blade? Dracula? V-Stroker anyone? Yes, you probably are too young to even remember those), but the classic Fleshlight Ice Lady is still around. Get this one.

Buy hey, if you’re looking to save a bit of money, the two Quickshot models are the most affordable, followed by the Flight Aviator or the GO Torque Ice.

Whatever you choose all of the Ice models are guaranteed to welcome you into a whole new realm of intense, see-through sensations.

And if you really can’t decide, I recommend you collect them all!

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