Are you ready to take your rimming game to the next level?
Then, look no further, because today we’re talking about how to eat ass like a pro.
That’s right, we’re diving deep into the world of rimming and exploring all the ins and outs (pun intended) of this intimate and pleasurable act.
So grab your bib, a glass of water, maybe a douche, and get ready to become a bona fide booty-eating expert.
Warning: this post may contain graphic details about butt stuff, so proceed at your own risk!
How To Eat Ass – A Step By Step Guide
Step 1: Know the anus
As much as rimming can be pleasurable, the anus is made from extremely sensitive tissue, which is prone to tears if you’re not gentle with it. So the second most important step of eating ass is to understand how delicate her backdoor is and how to stimulate it properly.
Step 2: Start with foreplay
Don’t just dive in headfirst like a starving piranha. Instead, take your time and get your partner in the mood first. Especially for women, foreplay is everything! Tease them with some sensual touches and kisses, and maybe even a little dirty talk. Then, when the time is right, slowly make your way south.
Step 3: Tongue the hole
When it comes to tongue action, you want to be like a ninja: precise and deadly (in a good way). Try flicking your tongue around the area, like a little lightning bolt of pleasure. You can also mix things up by running your tongue in circles around the hole, like a dog chasing its tail. And if you’re feeling extra adventurous, go ahead and try to insert your tongue in there like a curious snake. Just remember to take your time and listen to your partner’s reactions. If they’re moaning with pleasure, keep doing what you’re doing. Otherwise, it might be time to switch things up.
Step 4: Use your hands
Just because you’re eating her ass doesn’t mean you have to keep your hands in your pockets like a shy schoolboy. Use those hands like a pro! Let your fingers roam free and explore your partner’s body like a horny detective. Feel her breasts, grab her butt cheeks and give her a little spank. And if you really want to up the ante, why not try stimulating her clit or giving her pussy a little finger action too?
Step 5: Know when to stop
Now, we’re not saying it’s impossible to give your partner an orgasm from eating their ass, but let’s be real here: the odds are about as good as winning the lottery while riding a unicycle. So instead of putting all your eggs in that particular basket, think of eating ass as a form of appetizer to get your partner in the mood for the main course. And here’s a pro tip: look at your partner’s body language. If they’re moaning with pleasure and squirming like a snake in heat, keep going! But if they start to react less and less, it’s probably time to move on. Be a smart ass-eater and know when it’s time to switch things up.
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What Is Rimming (Analingus)?
Rimming, also known as analingus or “tongueing,” is a sexual practice that involves oral stimulation of the anus with the tongue, lips, or mouth.
It involve gentle licking or more intense stimulation with the tongue or lips.
Rimming is considered a form of anal sex and can be a pleasurable experience for some individuals.
However, as we’ll discuss shortly, it’s important to know that rimming carries some health risks, such as the potential transmission of STIs and bacteria.
So it’s important to use appropriate precautions and practice good hygiene.
Why do people eat ass?
Well, to put it in a humorous way, some people might eat ass because they enjoy the taste of adventure. They want to explore every nook and cranny of their partner’s body, and the butt is just one more place to explore.
But in reality, there’s no single answer to why people enjoy rimming or analingus.
Some people enjoy it as a form of sexual pleasure and find it arousing or intimate.
Others may enjoy the power dynamic or the taboo nature of the act.
Whereas others may simply enjoy it as a way to explore new sensations or to fulfill a partner’s desires.
Either way, it’s important to understand that rimming and anal play are perfectly normal sexual acts, and there’s nothing wrong or nasty about them!
Why should you try rimming your wife or girlfriend?
So you know how your partner has a ton of hotspots on their body that can drive them wild?
Well, turns out, the butt is no exception!
Yup, the anus is jam-packed with sensitive nerve endings that can bring a whole new level of pleasure to your playtime.
For many couples, rimming is a way to explore new sensations, build trust and intimacy, and really amp up the sexual pleasure.
Just be sure to communicate openly with each other and, if you’re new to it, take things at a pace that feels comfortable.
What does getting rimmed feel like?
For people who’ve never indulged in eating an ass, know that rimming is a whole other level of intimacy.
But what does getting rimmed really feel like?
Some describe it as hot and heavy, with the sensation of a warm and wet tongue or lips on their backdoor being downright erotic. Others describe it as a slightly ticklish sensation.
And, let’s not forget the emotional feelings!
Getting rimmed can make you feel super vulnerable and trusting with your partner, which only makes things even hotter, and amps up the intimacy of the act.
But, as with any sexual experience, you should always remember that not every gal will be on board with butt stuff. So, if you’re thinking about exploring the world of rimming, make sure you and your partner are on the same page.
How Should My Partner Prepare For A Rim Job?
Alright, buckle up folks, it’s time to talk about the art of preparing for a good ol’ fashioned rim job.
First things first, you gotta understand what you’re getting yourself into.
This isn’t just your run-of-the-mill lick and leave situation. You’re diving headfirst into the danger zone, so make sure you know the risks involved. And let’s not forget the importance of a little freshening up beforehand.
After all, you wouldn’t go to a fancy dinner party without taking a shower first, right?
Knowing the risks involved in analingus
Rimming involves contact with the anus and the surrounding areas, which can be a source of bacteria and viruses.
Not only does this involve potential contact with poop particles, but we’re also talking about the potential transmission of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) such as gonorrhea, chlamydia, and herpes, as well as intestinal parasites and other types of bacteria.
On top of that, there is also a risk of the transmission of hepatitis A, which can be found in the fecal matter of infected individuals.
Therefore, practicing good hygiene and safe sex practices are key in reducing the risks involved with eating ass.
Make sure everything is clean
Listen, I don’t want to freak you out. I have eaten plenty of beautiful asses and I am totally fine and healthy. It’s all about making sure your girl is clean.
This is common sense for most people and the type of girls I like to date. But if your girl doesn’t wash her asshole with soap and water as a routine behavior after going to the toilet, then make sure she washes it before you eat it!
You should also probably break up with her and find a cleaner girl.
Overall, maintaining proper hygiene through washing and douching before analingus can help to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for both partners.
It might even be a good idea to eat her ass while you have sex in the shower, which can help both of you get clean before and after the act!
The Basics Of Giving A Rim Job
Overall, giving a rim job isn’t a complicated process. In fact, we highly doubt that it was a rocket scientist who invented the act.
However, to give your girl a great rim job, it’s important you understand the basics of analingus.
And what better to learn the basics than by getting to know the anus!
Understanding the anus
Alright, let’s get cheeky and talk about the ins and outs of the anus.
The anus is the end of the digestive tract, where the good stuff (and sometimes the not-so-good stuff) makes its grand exit. It’s surrounded by a ring of muscles that can tighten or relax, depending on what’s going on down there.
Now, why does analingus feel good to the receiver?
Well, the anus is loaded with sensitive nerve endings that can be stimulated in a variety of ways, including with a warm, wet tongue. This makes it a particularly sensitive erogenous zone for many people.
When stimulated in the right way, such as through anal sex or analingus, these nerve endings can produce pleasurable sensations that can range from mild to intense.
So now that we’ve been better acquainted with the backdoor, let’s dive into the nitty-gritty of ass eating!
What’s The Best Position For Eating Ass?
When it comes down to it, there’s no one-size-fits-all position for eating ass.
While some of you might prefer to eat ass from behind, others might prefer when their girl sits on their face.
That being said, the best positions for eating ass typically involve those that allow for optimal access to the anus.
1) Doggystyle – Face down, ass up
This classic sex position is great because it provides complete and total access to her asshole.
When she has her face down and her ass up, you’ll have full access to her ass, perineum, and pussy, which should give you all the tools you need to give her an A+ rim job.
On top of that, doggystyle will also leave your hands free to squeeze, tease, and smack her butt cheeks, or explore the rest of her body while your tongue works its magic.
2) Face sitting or queening (regular or reverse)
Having her sit on your face, which is also known as queening, is great for analingus because it puts her in control of the location, pressure, and intensity of where you’re licking.
Additionally, this is a slightly more versatile position since it can be done with her facing you or away from you (think regular or reverse cowgirl).
3) 69ing
The classic 69 is a great position because it’s more of a quid pro quo type of thing. In other words, you can eat her ass, while she eats yours, or gives you a blowjob.
However, the downside to this position is that it’s better for eating pussy than it is for eating ass.
Access to her ass will be slightly more limited, and you’ll both need to be a bit more flexible to make it work.
4) Missionary
Missionary is another classic position that can be great for eating ass as long as she’s on the more flexible end of the spectrum.
Unfortunately, while this position is great for going down on a woman, it doesn’t really provide great access to her ass.
So for this to work, she’ll need to have her legs spread with you positioned between her thighs.
But it’ll work best if she holds her legs up as high as possible. Pro tip: you can use your hands to help her.
Give her extra points if she’s flexible enough to wrap her legs behind her head, giving you optimal access to her starfish!
On the other hand missionary is one of the best positions to have penetrative anal sex with a girl the first time. Push her legs back and her asshole will spread, making it easier to give her butt sex. But we’ll talk about this another day.
What Are The Best Tips And Techniques For Eating Ass?
While chowing down on some booty may not require a degree in engineering, there are definitely some important tips and tricks to keep in mind if you want to give a grade-A rim job.
So buckle up and get ready for some expert advice, because we’re about to take a deep dive into the world of ass-eating.
1) Get the receiver excited
You don’t want to just go diving headfirst into the asshole without warming it up first.
Just like with any other sexual activity, it’s important to get your partner aroused before you start munching on their tush.
Get her in the mood or just by spend some quality time with her before diving into her ass.
You’ll both have a much more enjoyable experience if you take a little time to rev up the engines before you hit the highway to the danger zone.
2) Lubrication is key
Let’s be real here, the last thing anybody wants during a good old-fashioned rim job is any kind of friction burns or uncomfortable rubbing.
The anus is made up of extremely sensitive skin, which can be great for sensual sensations. But it also means the anus can be injured very easily.
That’s where flavored lubes comes into play! It’s literally your best friend when it comes to getting freaky with the backdoor.
It’ll make everything go smoother (pun definitely intended) and leave both parties feeling satisfied and slippery.
3) Get in there, champ!
So you’ve warmed her up, gotten her into position, and it’s time to chow down!
Now is definitely not the time to be shy. Dive in there, and do your best to give her the rim job of a lifetime.
There are no one-size-fits-all approaches to eating ass.
But gentle tongue flicks, running circular motions around the hole, or trying to tongue fuck it are likely the best moves to try and emulate.
You’ve been wanting this! So now is not the time to be shy or to hesitate. Just get in there and show her what you’re made of!
4) Flatten the top of your tongue against their asshole
Next, it’s time to master the art of tongue positioning.
Specifically, flattening the top of your tongue against your partner’s anus can make a world of difference in terms of pleasure and sensation.
By flattening your tongue, you create a larger surface area for licking, which means more wetness and pressure for your partner to enjoy.
This can make the experience even more intense and pleasurable for them, and can take your rimming skills from good to great in no time.
5) Give pleasure to surrounding anal areas
As we’ve already mentioned, the anus is a very sensitive area. However, most of the sensitive nerve endings are on the outside, not the inside, of her butthole.
So while tongue fucking her butthole might be a good move to try, it shouldn’t be the only move in your repertoire.
Remember, the goal isn’t necessarily to go deep.
Most of her pleasure will come from using your tongue to tickle and stimulate the sensitive tissue surrounding her anus, not by actually getting inside of it.
6) Relax (for both the giver and receiver)
Feeling tense is not the best way to reach orgasm city.
If she’s clenching her sphincter for dear life or you’re worried about her letting out a little toot, neither of you are gonna enjoy the full benefits of butt munching.
So, whether you’re the giver or receiver, try to stay as calm as a cucumber with her butt in your face.
And if you’re new to this whole rimming thing, take it slow and talk it out with your partner. Trust us, both of you are probably feeling the same level of nervousness.
So, make sure to create a safe and sexy atmosphere to help you both relax and enjoy the ride.
7) Use more than your tongue
Eating ass isn’t just about using your tongue like it’s your last meal, it’s about using your hands like a frisky magician too.
Don’t be afraid to let your fingers do the talking and explore her body like it’s a treasure map.
Grab her butt cheeks like they’re the last slice of pizza, give her breasts a squeeze like they’re your favorite stress ball, why not throw in a spank or two?
And if you really want to level up your game, try giving her clit a little love or throwing some finger action into the mix.
Anal toys, like anal vibrators and butt plugs, also pair well with analingus!
The more sensations you can give her, the better!
8) Try a position where the receiver has control
Having your lady perch her lovely derriere on your face while you dive in for some analingus can be an absolute game-changer.
Not only does it give you a front-row seat to the main event, but it also ensures you won’t have to worry about straining your neck or losing your balance mid-lick.
It’s also just a great opportunity for your partner to really get comfortable and relax into the experience.
Plus, she’ll have more control over the situation, which isn’t only hotter for her, but it can help her show you what feels best.
9) Experiment with speed, direction, and pressure
Eating ass isn’t a one-size-fits-all kind of deal.
It’s time to experiment and get playful with your tongue to find out what really gets her going.
Now, if your partner is a newbie to the whole butt-eating game, take it slow and be gentle. No need to scare them off with a full-blown face-dive into their ass.
But if she’s a seasoned pro and absolutely loves feeling your mouth on her backdoor, then go ahead and give them the ass eating of a lifetime!
Don’t hold back, get in there and show that booty some love!
10) Go ahead and let her know you love it
If you’re a fan of eating her booty, don’t be afraid to let your enthusiasm show!
Expressing your pleasure with deep moans while you’re down there can actually enhance the experience for both you and your partner.
In fact, the vibrations created by your moans can add an extra layer of stimulation and pleasure, making the whole experience even more intense.
So don’t hold back! Let those guttural noises escape your throat as you explore every inch of your partner’s derriere.
11) Take it to the next level
If you’re looking to take your booty-eating game to the next level, it’s important to remember that there’s a whole world of erogenous zones out there just waiting to be explored.
Don’t be afraid to venture out and explore other areas of her body before returning to the main event.
Take your time, tease and tantalize, and build up the anticipation until she’s practically begging for you to dive back in.
Rimming also pairs really well with other sexual activities.
So if she’s really into it, try incorporating some fingering action into the mix. Or, if you’re feeling extra adventurous, try stimulating her breasts, clitoris, or vagina as you play with her anus.
Just make sure you’re careful not to put anything that’s been in their ass into their vagina, unless you’re looking for a one-way ticket to infection town.
12) Give the taint some love
Alright, let’s talk about the taint – that oft-overlooked patch of skin nestled snugly between the anus and the vagina.
Sure, it may not be the most glamorous or flashy part of the body, but don’t let that fool you. It’s a treasure trove of pleasure just waiting to be explored.
When you’re busy rimming your lady friend, it’s easy to get tunnel vision and forget about the surrounding area.
But trust us, you’re gonna want to give that taint some attention too.
Not only is it an incredibly sensitive area, but it’s also a prime spot for some seriously mind-blowing sensations.
13) Don’t use your teeth
When you’re performing analingus on a lady, under no circumstances should you ever, EVER use your teeth.
I don’t care if you’re a vampire trying to get a quick snack or a beaver trying to build a dam. Your teeth have no place in the world of rimming.
Why, you ask?
Well, for starters, the anus is a sensitive area that requires a delicate touch. You’re not chomping on a piece of gum here. You’re exploring a part of the body that requires patience, gentleness, and a whole lot of lube.
Plus, there are plenty of other ways to stimulate the anus that don’t involve gnashing your chompers like a wild animal.
So remember, folks: no teeth, no biting, no chomping!
Debunking Rimming Myths – Fact Vs. Fiction
Despite what you may think or may have heard, we assure you that eating ass is a perfectly normal thing to do.
However, there’s a lot of misinformation out there surrounding analingus. So we thought it’d be good to debunk a few myths once and for all.
Myth – It’s nasty, gross, or disgusting
Sure, you can describe eating ass as nasty, but there’s nothing wrong with that. In fact, some people actually enjoy sexual acts that are “nasty,” and can be downright turned on just by the thought of it.
However, as long as proper hygiene is prioritized, there’s nothing inherently gross or disgusting about giving or receiving a rim job.
You might even like it!
Myth – It’s like you’re eating shit
As long as your gal takes the time to wash and clean before you eat her starfish, there shouldn’t be any feces involved whatsoever, and there should be no comparison to eating shit either!
Frequently Asked Questions – How To Eat Ass
By now, you should have a fairly good idea on how you can eat ass and give an A+ rim job.
But for those of you that still have some unanswered questions, we thought it’d be a good idea to include a few of the most frequently asked questions we hear from our readers.
How do I eat ass like a pro?
First things first, you need to understand why analingus feels good. It’s not just about getting your tongue all up in there. It’s about providing stimulation and pleasure to one of the most sensitive areas of the body.
But here’s the thing: the anus is very delicate. It requires a gentle touch and a careful approach.
You can’t just go in guns blazing and expect your partner to enjoy it.
That’s where the technique comes in.
Flattening your tongue against the hole is the best technique we can offer. It will cover more surface area, and provides ample stimulation and wetness.
How are people able to eat ass without getting seriously ill?
Well, first of all, the human body is pretty resilient. We’re built to handle all sorts of things, from the common cold to a whole pizza in one sitting. And as it turns out, our digestive system is pretty good at handling a little bit of butt bacteria too.
Of course, there’s always a risk of getting sick when you’re messing around with bodily fluids.
But being a bit naughty and risky is half the fun, isn’t it?
Still, let’s not forget about the power of good hygiene.
If you’re going to be diving headfirst into someone’s backdoor, you want to make sure it’s as clean as a whistle.
That means showering beforehand, using a gentle soap, and maybe even doing a little bit of prep work with some wet wipes.
How do I get better at eating ass?
Eating ass is a skill, and like any skill, it takes practice to master.
So if you’re serious about becoming an analingus expert, you’re going to have to put in some serious tongue time.
But don’t worry, it’s not all hard work and no play.
In fact, experimenting with different techniques can be a ton of fun (for you and your partner).
Try different positions, use different tongue movements, and see which ones get the best reaction.
And don’t be afraid to get creative. After all, variety is the spice of life!
Is it a common sexual practice to eat people’s asses?
Well, let’s just say that rimming is becoming more and more mainstream these days. It used to be a bit of a taboo subject, but now it seems like everyone and their grandma is talking about it.
In fact, some might say that eating ass has become the new normal. It’s like the avocado toast of the sexual world. Everyone’s doing it, and if you’re not, you’re probably missing out on something pretty great.
But despite its newfound popularity, analingus is still not for everyone.
Some people love it, some people hate it, and some people are just plain scared of it. And that’s okay!
How do I get my girlfriend to let me eat her ass?
Not all girls will like this, mostly because they’re worried their asshole will taste bad and you won’t like them anymore.
If you think she may be concerned about it, start biting and kissing her butt cheeks while in the shower, when you know she knows that she’s clean.
As you kiss and bite her butt cheeks slowly make your way towards her asshole.
Gauge her response. If she’s ok with it, she’ll enjoy the ride. If she’s uncomfortable, she will move around or say it. In that case stop doing it and do something else. She’s not ready yet.
After you have sex tell her how much you enjoy giving her pleasure and how you want to explore new ways of doing that. Next time you have sex try again the same thing, she may be more comfortable now and let you do it.
If it fails again, let it go for a while, just remember that there are plenty of other ways to please your partner. She may get into it over time, or she may just not like it, in which case you can choose to stay with her or to break up and find a girlfriend that likes to have her ass eaten.
But remember to never make it a big deal, you don’t have to eat ass to have a fulfilling and satisfying sex life.
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