How to Make Her Cum Effortlessly: Satisfy Her Every Time

Are you ready to learn the secrets of giving a woman an orgasm? Want to know how to make her cum?

If you are, then buckle up, because we’re about to dive into some juicy and exciting territory.

Now, I know what you’re thinking – “Oh great, another internet article about how to please women.”

But fear not, my fuck-ready friend!

This won’t be your average “10 tips to make her scream” kind of post.

We’re diving into the juiciest, wettest, and wildest details on how to make a girl cum, including everything that every guy should know, but only a select few do.

So without any further ado, let’s get started on this orgasmic adventure!

How To Make Her Cum – A Step By Step Guide

Step 1: Turn her on

The very first step in making a woman cum is to ensure that she’s aroused. This can be done in a number of ways, but ensuring she feels comfortable and relaxed are key. It’s also very important that you are comfortable and relaxed. That shows you know what you’re doing, you’re a man, and she can relax herself and surrender to you.

Step 2: Get to know the clit and the g-spot

The clitoris are g-spot are easily the most important aspects of the female orgasm. Although there are many different types of orgasms, most women find it easiest to orgasm from clitoral stimulation. Get to know this little guy! He’ll be your best friend when it comes to making your girl orgasm.

Step 3: Experiment with different types of stimulation and positions

There are many different types of stimulation you can use to pleasure a woman. You can make her cum with your dick, fingers or tongue. It’s good to try different things and different positions and prioritize those that provide positive feedback. If you’re licking her pussy and she’s moaning like crazy, then this is working. If you try a fingering technique and she doesn’t react that much, then go back to licking. Beginners should aim at making her come through fingering and oral sex first.

Step 4: Don’t stop

Women need consistency when it comes to working their way up to orgasm. So if you ever hear these words during sex, for the love of God, DON’T STOP! She’s almost there. Keep at it and get ready because she’s about to cum… right… now.

Step 5: Take that leap of faith

Once you can confidently make your girl cum with your fingers and tongue, next time she’s getting close, switch up and penetrate her with your dick. Keep going and she’ll likely cum in no time.

Step 6: Keep experimenting

Experimenting with different positions, getting her very horny while she’s still dressed, being an alpha male, these are just some of the many different ways you can get a girl to cum very quickly from penetration alone. Play with her arousal and never stop improving.

Female Orgasm 101: What Every Guy Should Know But Few Do

Gentlemen, listen up!

It’s time to talk about a topic that often gets brushed under the rug: the female orgasm and her arousal.

Yes, that’s right, we’re going to dive into what every guy should know about making a woman really wet in bed and bringing her to climax.

But here’s the catch: despite what many men think, only a few actually know how to do it right.

So, what exactly is the best way to make a woman really wet in bed and make her cum?

1) Know how the female body (and mind) works

First things first, it’s important to understand that female arousal is a complex process involving physical, emotional, and psychological factors, and it can vary from woman to woman.

However, there are some general tips and tricks that can help you get your partner in the right headspace and physical state for a mind-blowing experience.

For starters, take your time. It’s not a race!

Rushing straight to the main event is a surefire way to turn her off and prevent her from reaching her full potential. Spend time on foreplay, explore her many erogenous zones, and try different techniques to gauge what works best for her.

Watch her physical reaction to see if what you’re doing is working.

Also, don’t underestimate the power of mental stimulation.

Arousal starts in the brain, so try to create a comfortable and relaxing atmosphere. Set the mood with dim lighting, soft music, or even some aromatherapy.

Make sure she feels safe and comfortable, and create an environment where she can let go of her inhibitions and fully immerse herself in the experience.

And last but not least, let’s not forget about clitoral stimulation.

While penetration can be pleasurable, it’s not always the key to bringing a woman to climax.

In fact, most women have trouble cumming from penetration alone, and 36% of women say they NEED clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.

The clitoris has thousands of nerve endings and can be incredibly sensitive, so take your time to explore it and find out what works best for your partner, which brings us to our next tip:

You need to know there are different types of orgasms!

2) Understand the different types of orgasms

Contrary to popular belief, the female orgasm isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience.

In fact, there are several different types of female orgasms, each with their own unique sensations and triggers.

Here’s a closer look at the different types of female orgasms:

1. Clitoral Orgasm – This is the most common type of female orgasm, and it’s usually achieved through direct stimulation of the clitoris. The clitoris has thousands of nerve endings and can be incredibly sensitive, which can make this type of orgasm particularly intense.
2. Vaginal Orgasm – This type of orgasm is achieved through penetration and stimulation of the vagina. While some women find this type of orgasm harder to achieve than others, it can be very pleasurable and is often described as a deep, full-body experience.
3. G-Spot Orgasm – The G-spot is an erogenous zone located about 2-3 inches inside the vagina on the front wall. Stimulating this area can lead to a G-spot orgasm, which is described as a powerful, full-body experience that can last longer than other types of orgasms. This type of orgasm can also lead to female ejaculation (squirting).
4. A-Spot Orgasm – The A-spot is an erogenous zone located deep in the vagina, near the cervix. Stimulation of this area can lead to an A-spot orgasm, which is often described as a deeply satisfying and pleasurable experience.

3) Know what turns her on

Here are a few things that tend to get the ladies going:

1. A good sense of humor – That’s right, folks. If you can make a woman laugh, you’re already halfway there. There’s just something about a guy who can crack a joke and lighten the mood that’s incredibly attractive.
2. Confidence – A guy who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to go after it? That’s hot. Women love a man who’s comfortable in his own skin and isn’t afraid to take charge.
3. A kind heart – Sure, they all want a bad boy from time to time. But at the end of the day, most women are looking for someone who’s kind, compassionate, and empathetic. Bonus points if you love animals and help little old ladies cross the street.
4. Intelligence – Women also appreciate a man who can hold a stimulating conversation and challenge them intellectually. Bonus points if you know a thing or two about quantum physics.
5. The little things – It’s the small gestures that count, my friend. Whether it’s opening the car door, leaving a cute note, or surprising her with her favorite snack, women love a man who pays attention to the details and makes an effort to make her feel special.

Going back to the fact that arousal starts in the brain, if you want to give a woman a breathtaking orgasm, you’ll need to start by getting her to think of you as the sexy beast you truly are, and to do this, you’ll need to know what turns her on.

4) Take care of yourself

One of the most important things you can do to increase your chances of success is to take care of yourself.

When you take care of yourself, you naturally feel better about yourself. This can lead to increased confidence, which is a highly attractive trait to many women.

Whether it’s hitting the gym, getting a fresh haircut, or taking care of your skin, taking care of yourself shows that you value yourself and your appearance.

And let’s face it, nobody wants to date someone who’s always sick or rundown.

By taking care of yourself, you’re not only improving your physical health, but you’re also increasing your energy levels and overall wellbeing.

This can make you a more enjoyable person to be around, which is key when it comes to dating and relationships.

And when trying to make her cum!

5) Be more dominant

It’s no secret that women are attracted to dominant men.

While every woman is different and what turns one person on may not work for another, there are a few reasons why being dominant tends to be a turn-on for many women.

First and foremost, being dominant can convey a sense of strength and confidence.

A dominant man takes charge and knows what he wants, which can be incredibly attractive to a woman who wants a partner who is assertive and sure of himself.

Additionally, being dominant can also create a sense of excitement and anticipation.

Many women enjoy feeling a sense of danger or unpredictability, and being with a dominant partner can create an intense and exhilarating experience.

Furthermore, being dominant can also create a sense of trust and security.

When a woman allows herself to be vulnerable in the presence of a dominant man, she is entrusting him with her safety and well-being.

In return, the man is expected to provide a sense of safety, which can create a deep sense of intimacy and connection, which as we’ll discuss in a minute, is a key aspect of female arousal.

6) Find a balance between rough, gentle, romantic, and sexy as fuck

It’s important to note, however, that being dominant doesn’t mean being violent or abusive.

Being dominant can be a powerful and arousing experience for many women, but it’s important to approach it properly.

That’s why it’s key to find a healthy balance between being rough and sexy, and still showing tenderness, love, and care at the same time.

7) Trust, intimacy, and vulnerability

When it comes to sexual pleasure, many focus solely on physical stimulation and technique.

While these things are certainly important, they’re not the only factors that come into play when it comes to making a woman orgasm.

In fact, three of the most important elements for achieving sexual pleasure are trust, intimacy, and vulnerability.

In order to fully let go and enjoy the experience, a woman needs to feel safe and secure with her partner. This means that she needs to trust that her partner will respect her boundaries, listen to her needs, and communicate openly and honestly.

Intimacy is also key when it comes to sexual pleasure. When a woman feels emotionally connected to her partner, it can create a deeper and more meaningful sexual experience.

And finally, when a woman feels comfortable enough to be vulnerable with her partner, it creates a sense of trust and intimacy that can lead to deeper and more intense physical sensations.

Ultimately, knowing the female anatomy is great, but trust, intimacy, and vulnerability are essential when it comes to making a woman orgasm.

How To Find Her Clitoris – In 3 Easy Steps

If you’re new to the female vagina, let’s just say that finding the clitoris can sometimes feel like searching for a needle in a haystack.

But fear not, my dear friends!

Here are a few tips to help you on your quest:

1. Start by following the road map – No, not Google Maps, silly! I’m talking about the labia. Follow the outer lips until you reach the entrance of the vagina. Once you’re there, look for a small bump just above the vaginal opening. That’s your target!
2. Use your tongue – Yes, you read that right. The clitoris is super sensitive and can be easily stimulated with some well-placed oral attention. So, pucker up and get to work! Going down on her and learning how to eat pussy is one of the best ways to get her turned on and ready for a mind-shattering, leg-shaking orgasm.
3. Ask for directions – Don’t be afraid to ask your partner for guidance. They know their body best and can show you exactly where to go.

Remember, finding the clitoris may take some time and practice, especially if you’re new to the world of the female body, but it’s definitely worth it.

Common problem: I can’t make her cum during sex

If you’re having trouble getting your girl to orgasm, you’re not alone.

I assure you this is a very common, age-old problem, which is precisely why we’re writing this article in the first place.

So if this sounds like your situation, and if you’ve already spent a lot of time experimenting with different techniques and methods, one thing you can do is to simply talk to her about it.

Maybe she’s shy and gets nervous when you’re in the sack together. Or, maybe you’re just not hitting the right spot.

Either way, talking to her is the best way to find out what’s getting in the way of her orgasms, and what you can do to help. If ask her about it, be casual and chill, don’t make it a big deal and drop the subject quickly.

The worst thing you can do is get upset or frustrated, which will only make the situation worse.

Why do some women struggle with orgasm?

There are many reasons why a woman might have trouble reaching climax. Here are a few of the reasons.

• Insufficient stimulation
• Poor performance from her partner
• Nervous, anxious, or depressed
• She experiences pain during penetration
• Self-conscious
• Takes medications that impact her libido
• General lack of interest in sex
• She doesn’t think her partner is interested in sex
• Her body simply doesn’t cum

Sex Positions And Techniques To Make Her Cum

While almost any position can cause a woman to orgasm, there are some tried and true techniques that work for very specific reasons.

Let’s take a look!

1) Missionary – For Clitoral Stimulation

The “missionary position” is a position where the receiving partner is lying on her back and the penetrating partner positioned between her legs.

When it comes to clitoral stimulation, the missionary position can be beneficial because the angle of penetration can allow for direct or indirect stimulation of the clitoris as the penis or pubic area rubs against the clitoral area during thrusting.

Additionally, she can use her hands to touch her clitoris or you can use your hands to stimulate the clitoris during intercourse. The choice is yours (and hers!).

2) Cowgirl – For her pleasure

The cowgirl position is where the woman straddles the man and takes control of the pace and depth of penetration.

With this position, the woman can either face the man (cowgirl) or face away from them (reverse cowgirl).

The cowgirl position can be beneficial for female orgasms because it puts her in control of the movements, which can allow for more targeted stimulation of the clitoris and other sensitive areas.

This can be particularly helpful for people who may have difficulty reaching orgasm through penetration alone.

Tip: In reverse cowgirl, you can make her straddle between one of your legs, so her clit will rub against your thigh.

3) Edging – How To Give Her Better, Stronger Orgasms

Edging is a sexual technique where a person intentionally delays or interrupts orgasm to build up sexual tension and arousal before finally allowing themselves to climax.

This technique is typically used during masturbation by men learning how to last longer in bed, but it can also be used during partnered activity in virtually any position.

When a woman engages in edging, she can experience stronger and more intense orgasms because the build-up of sexual tension leads to a more powerful release.

Additionally, edging can help a woman learn more about her body and sexual preferences, as she becomes more aware of what feels good and how to control her sexual response.

One way to practice edging is to bring yourself or your partner to the brink of orgasm and then pause or slow down stimulation for a short period of time. This can be repeated several times before finally allowing yourself to orgasm.

Another method is to vary the intensity and type of stimulation to keep the body guessing and increase the level of arousal.

Sex Positions To Stimulate Her G-Spot

Of course, virtually any sex position can work wonders, but for the best results, you’ll want to find positions that optimize either clitoral or g-spot stimulation.

Below, we list some of the best positions for g-spot play.

1) Pillow under the butt missionary

From the classic missionary position, you can heat things up quite a bit just by placing a pillow underneath her butt.

This changes the angle of penetration, which should make it easier to stimulate her g-spot when you’re thrusting into her.

Just make sure to use a pillow other than the one you sleep with, or put a towel, her dress or your t-shirt over it first.

Remember, g-spot stimulation can cause some women to squirt, and I don’t want you sleeping on a soggy pillow!

2) Spooning

Aside from being a great position for watching movies and eating popcorn on the couch, spooning is another great position for g-spot stimulation.

From this position, you’ll be entering her from behind, which should angle the penis directly toward her g-spot.

It also puts her in control of the depth and intensity of penetration, which should help her achieve pleasure in her own way.

And it’s also a great position for intimacy since you can kiss her shoulders or neck, and caress her body while making love.

3) Doggy style (against wall or headboard)

Doing it doggy style, either with her standing against a wall, or on her knees against your headboard, is a great position for ultimate g-spot stimulation.

Much in the same way of spooning, this position ensures that the angle of penetration is pointed toward her g-spot, which should lead to intense pleasure, and hopefully, an even better orgasm.

In the end, it’s important to remember that every woman’s body is different, and while these positions might be great for some women, they might not work for others.

So again, it’s important to experiment, try different positions, and find out what works for her.

After all, they say variety is the spice of life!

The Do’s And Don’ts Of How To Make Her Cum

Now that we’ve covered the best positions and techniques for making her cum, it’s time to review the do’s and don’ts.

The Do’s Of Making Her Cum

Below, we list some of the absolute hottest ways to help your girl achieve her next mind-shattering orgasm.

1) Talk to her and be vocal

As mentioned above, women need to feel intimacy to achieve orgasm.

And that’s precisely why talking to her and being vocal during lovemaking can really help spice things up.

Don’t be shy to ask her about what she wants and what she likes, and make sure to tell her what you like as well.

Communication is one of the most essential components to a fun, fulfilling, and orgasm-filled sex life.

2) Add in some sex toys

Did you know that not all women can achieve orgasm through traditional intercourse alone?

In fact, 36% need clitoral stimulation to climax. And that’s precisely where sex toys come in handy!

They can provide that oh-so-important clitoral stimulation that some of us need to get the job done.

Not to mention that there are so many different styles and types of sex toys, that there’s virtually no limit as to how you can spice things up by adding in a toy or two!

3) Kiss her

Kissing can be a powerful tool in turning a woman on and helping her reach orgasm. And there are several reasons why kissing can be such an effective tool in this regard.

Firstly, when we kiss, our brains release a hormone called oxytocin, which is often referred to as the “love hormone”. Oxytocin is associated with bonding and intimacy, and it can help to create a sense of closeness and trust between partners.

Kissing can also help to stimulate the body’s sexual response, including the pleasure centers of the brain. This can help to increase arousal and desire, making it easier for a woman to become sexually excited.

Finally, kissing can be a powerful form of communication between partners.

When we kiss, we can communicate our desires, needs, and intentions without words.

This can help to create a sense of understanding and connection between partners, which can make it easier for a woman to relax and enjoy sexual activity.

4) Linger longer over foreplay

Foreplay is a crucial part of sexual activity that can greatly enhance a woman’s experience and increase her chances of achieving orgasm.

In fact, many women require a significant amount of foreplay in order to become fully aroused and achieve orgasm during intercourse.

There are several reasons why foreplay is so important in helping a woman orgasm.

First and foremost, it allows the woman’s body to become fully aroused, which increases blood flow to the genitals and creates a state of heightened sensitivity.

This makes it more likely that she will experience pleasure and orgasm during intercourse.

So by prioritizing foreplay and taking the time to fully engage in it, couples can greatly enhance their sexual experiences and improve their overall satisfaction in the relationship.

5) Compliment her

Complimenting a woman during lovemaking can be an important aspect of creating a positive and fulfilling sexual experience for both partners.

It can help to build intimacy, increase confidence and self-esteem, and enhance the overall pleasure of the encounter.

One of the primary benefits of complimenting a woman during lovemaking is that it can help to establish a deeper emotional connection between partners.

By expressing admiration and appreciation for her body and sexual abilities, you can create a sense of closeness and intimacy that can enhance the overall experience for both partners.

Complimenting her on her sexual abilities will also encourage her and bring out her inner sex beast.

7) Hold off

We mentioned a technique called edging earlier, and this is precisely what we mean by holding off.

It’s fun to jump headfirst and race your way to pleasure town, but slowing down, taking your time, and delaying orgasm can lead to stronger, more intense orgasms, which can be more pleasurable for both partners.

8) Use lube

Using lubrication during sex can be extremely important for both partners, as it can greatly enhance the overall experience and make sex more comfortable and pleasurable.

One of the primary benefits of using lubrication is that it can help to reduce friction and discomfort during penetration.

This is particularly important for women, as the vagina does not always produce enough natural lubrication during arousal, which can make penetration painful or uncomfortable.

Using a high-quality lube or a specifically designed lubricant for women, can help to alleviate these issues and create a more comfortable and pleasurable experience for both partners.

On top of that, there are many different types of lubricants out there, including flavored lubes, which can add another ingredient into your sex life.

9) Let her cum first

If you’re having sex, I know you want to cum too.

But, if you’re reading this article, I can only surmise that you’re interested in prioritizing her pleasure.

So what better way to do so than to let her cum first?

Letting her cum first can be an important aspect of creating a positive and satisfying sexual experience for both partners.

When a woman is able to achieve orgasm before her partner, it can help to establish a sense of intimacy and trust, which are essential ingredients to sexual satisfaction.

The key thing to keep in mind here is to not make it a big deal. You can try to make her cum first, spend some time on it, but then if it doesn’t happen, move on.

10) Rub her clit

The clitoris is by far the most sensitive part of her vagina.

And as we’ve already mentioned several times, most women need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.

That’s right, for many women, clitoral stimulation isn’t an option or added benefit. It’s a necessity!

Therefore, whether you’re going down on her, fingering her, rimming her, or penetrating her with your cock, don’t forget to rub her clit.

It’s THE most essential ingredient when it comes to making her cum!

11) Perfect your position

It’s important to understand that not every female’s anatomy is exactly the same, which means that not every position will feel as good for every woman.

Maybe it’s missionary that feels best for her, maybe it’s doggy style, or maybe it’s her hanging from the ceiling fan while you bounce on the bed, jackhammering her all the way to pleasure town (okay, I made that one up).

Either way, it’s vital that you and your girl experiment with different positions to find out what works best for her.

12) Experiment

Sometimes, there’s nothing wrong with what you’re doing. It’s just that it’s time to spice things up.

Couples’ toys are a great start, but there’s a whole world of sex waiting for you and her to explore.

For instance, you might experiment with BDSM furniture or BDSM gear such as: handcuffs, blindfolds, floggers, whips, chains, nipple clamps, etc.

The idea is to play around, experiment, and find out what makes her cum! And the best part is, it can be a hell of a lot of fun!

The Don’ts Of Making Her Not Cum

By now, you should have a pretty good idea of what you can do to help your girl cum.

However, it’s just as important to know what not to do. So before you head out and start practicing, let’s review a few of the biggest mistakes men make in the bedroom.

1) Don’t copy porn

Thanks to the advent of the internet, most males spend a good deal of time watching porn before they ever see a woman naked in person for the first time.

However, no matter how excited you might be to try that new technique you saw on Pornhub, it’s important to not imitate what you see in porn. At least not until you and your partner are more experienced and are looking for new ways to spice things up.

For starters, porn is like Sci-Fi movies: it’s not real life!

Just because you saw a guy in a porn film doing something, doesn’t mean you should try to replicate it in real life. I mean, would you try to imitate a superhero after watching a Marvel movie?

Probably not (although, I won’t judge if you do, especially if it’s Tony Stark!).

Moreover, porn is staged, scripted, and edited to make it look good on camera. It’s not real sex!

So, if you try to imitate porn, you might end up hurting yourself. And no one wants a trip to the ER because you wanted to try a fancy move you saw in a porn video.

2) Don’t stop!

If you ever hear these words while making love to your girl, no matter what you do, DON’T STOP!

Whether through penetration, oral sex, or clitoral stimulation, women often need a steady, consistent rhythm to climax.

A consistent rhythm helps create a sense of predictability and control, which can be important for many women when it comes to their sexual pleasure.

When a woman knows what to expect and can anticipate the movements of her partner, it can create a sense of safety and security that can help to enhance pleasure and reduce anxiety or discomfort.

That being said, being inconsistent with your moves is one of the surest ways to frustrate her and prevent her from reaching her orgasm.

3) Don’t make it a big deal

Some girls just don’t cum, no matter what you do. They are rare, that is true, but they exist and you may be with one of them. That doesn’t mean they don’t love sex, they love it just as every human does, but they have some underlying condition that prevents them from having an orgasm.

If you make it a big deal out of her orgasm, that will only make you appear needy, which is a turn off for her and worsen the situation. You will look desperate and as if you have low self-esteem.

You can still have a happy, long sexual relationship even if she never has an orgasm in her life.

Frequently Asked Questions – How To Make Her Cum

For those of you that still have questions, we’ve included a few of the most frequently asked questions we get from our readers about how to make a girl cum.

What are some tips on giving a girl her first vaginal orgasm?

Patience and understanding the female anatomy are important for giving a girl her first vaginal orgasm. Encourage her to explore her own body, focus on clitoral stimulation, try different positions, and experiment with different types of pressure and rhythm.

What is the best way to make a woman have an orgasm?

Clitoral stimulation is by far the best way to make a woman have an orgasm. In fact, most women struggle or are completely unable to orgasm from penetration alone. Therefore, rubbing, licking or sucking her clitoris is going to be your best bet!

How do you make a woman orgasm without going down on her?

Aside from going down on her, you can give a woman an orgasm by ensuring that she’s turned on, rubbing, feeling and caressing her body, stimulating her clitoris, and fingering or penetrating her with your penis.